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Make her enjoy anal.
It?s important when training your slut to associate anal with as much pleasure as possible. Play with her clitoris. It helps relax her anus and focuses her brain on the pleasure aspect.
Before too long into her training she will experience anal sex as pleasurable in itself. |
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Last week I gave the slut a thorough training session. This involved piss training, anal (mostly for my pleasure), an extended beating with a wooden paddle and lots and lots of slave mental training. she usually is ready for the sessions but it's not until I see her obey automatically that I know she's really ready. |
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In response to an email:
I am mostly using this to find a male sub to fuck my female property for my entertainment. unfortunately, I require someone who has already been exposed to the lifestyle, not interested in training newbies especially online training. I'm sure you can understand I get little out of it.
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Once in awhile you should beat off and cum on your whore or slave’s face when she’s fully clothed or even somehow otherwise occupied. This will show her what she’s good for and further solidify her place. After doing this slip your fingers in her pussy to witness how wet she’s become. |
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Training my new sub has been rewarding. I begin to think about how is it that all of the subs I've had were from real life encounters? Why can I find a sub in real life so easily with all the challenges that online life doesn't have?
for instance, online supposedly has subs who know what they are and I can directly approach those. In real life, I'm encountering women who do not know they want to be a sub.
But now I am beginning to think its my influence in modifying her transformation into a sub. Online I've encountered several blog subs (those who read a lot and don't do a lot). This makes it tougher to mold a sub as many are actually just bottoms who get a kick out of playing sub.
This site is hopefully still good for finding others within the lifestyle. But when it comes to subs, it's like sex for me, real life beats online... |
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I forgot about this site, seeing as how I never encountered a real BDSMer from an online meeting.
But I get an email out of the blue so I'm reminded of this site.
I remember encountering gay bottoms pretending to be subs, telling me I have to fulfill their desires if I was a real Dom.
I remember encountering female bottoms who probably thought they were subs, but didn't realize I wasn't just a bedroom top.
And I remember encountering lots of newbies who read a lot and feel they need to tell me how a Dom should act.
Okay, Collar me show me what is different:) |
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What's with all the Doms wanting to service me? Am I in the bizzaro world? |
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The sub is an excellent cocksucker. Still not a complete urinal, but getting there. |
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Found some interesting reading material on bdsmcircle: "There are a lot of male subs out there just looking for a fast thrill. Because of them, male subs have to deal with a bad reputation problem. "
For the real ones, I empathize with what you have to go through to prove yourselves (And I'm usually one of those testing you too!) |
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Although our search has been rough here I feel for females who have to sort through tons of horny guys pretending to be in the life (especially pretend Dominants). Subs are much easier to sort through.
For instance, if I don't want a sub to call me Master and s/he argues that word is the proper term to call me, I know they've missed the point of submission. If someone submits to me, and I say call me Mr Mayor Bayer, s/he should call me Mayor Bayer with no qualms:P
However guys can play dominant with much more ease. |
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This one's good:
Female joined 4/20 profile: looking for new owner etc etc
Us reply: etc etc let's talk
Female joined 4/20 reply: not interested in talking to Anyone at this time
Us thought: Why not put that in the profile? Especially if it's only been 2 weeks since she created the profile. |
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6'2 and 40 lbs? That's reasonable.
We're almost down to only one page of results of unhidden female slave profiles of people who have been online within the last 2 months. |
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nameless scammer pretending to be a female slave: I can't wait to see you Sir.
Me: Great, I can buy a ticket from colorado springs.
scammer: I'm afraid of air travel.
Me: the greyhound's even better, they do the driving.
scammer: I have a car I can drive, if you pay for the gas.
Me: No problem, I have a little brother in Denver who can help you in your travel.
scammer: I prefer to travel alone and my way.
Me: It's good to demand to do things your way as my potential slave:P I can travel there, we'll come back together and I'll pay on the way.
scammer: (at this point the guy probably realizes I'm not naive, but I like to waste their time if they waste mine:) |
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Can you call yourself a master if you've never had ANY experience in the lifestyle at all?
Can you call yourself a slave if you've never had ANY experience whatsoever?
Some believe it's like a position achieved after some trial. After all, can you call yourself a race driver if you've never driven a car once?
Others believe it's like an orientation, in that you don't have to have sex to know you're gay, bi, etc.
Knowing the pure level of dedication needed for someone to be a slave, I doubt it's something one can understand from thoughts of fantasy alone. When we fantasize, we rarely add boring thoughts, things we don't like, or a less than ideal counterpart. |
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We're not here to chat role-play or cybersex. |
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This site isn't too bad. I would suggest collarme to enable a list search with text under each username, which would allow you to quickly see whether a person fits or not versus the current method of clicking on each name tediously. Also a "hide profile" checkbox alongside each profile listing would help us filter out what we need. Another suggestion: owned vs unowned, so slaves can easily notify the world and remain removed from searches for unowned slaves. |
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