BDSM is only a fetish to me. I am more interested in the lifestyle, philosophy and dynamics of a Dom/Sub - Master/slave relationship. Bondage and rope tying can be fun or BDSM techniques are useful for training and discipline though. Having a sub that is true in spirit and understands completely and coming to a fulfillment of being a True Dominate Master is the ultimate achievement. In this day of feminism and androgyny of male and female make this a difficult en-devour. The best reading for this ideology online is at humbledfemales.net if you are interested.
