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Don't worry. There is someone out there for you. Words that strike, not terror, but a sense of absolute futility, in the heart of anyone that lives a solitary life. Probably because the most prevalent time to hear those words is right after you have laid yourself open in an attempt to move from an existence of solitude to one of sharing. I am not saying it isn't true. I have had two opportunities in my three years within the community, but both didn't last. Total disclosure requires me to admit that once was my fault as I was too greedy and didn't recognize what a wonderful thing I had going, and the other because she chose to go elsewhere. Probably for the same reason I blew the first one. Karma is such a bitch sometimes. For what ever reason, I have spent the last eighteen months trying to find you. Listen to what I have to offer. I am a 55 year old male switch that has been active in the community for three years. It has been a very active three years as I have already made the progression from community whore, to teacher, to connoisseur. My top half is primarily a service top, but I am very good at both roles and have references should they be needed. Sensation play is my favorite, but I am quite adaptable. As a bottom, I have been quite fortunate to experience both play tempered by love and play fueled by frenzy. I am very comfortable in both. I am single, retired, financially stable, drug and disease free, intelligent, educated, imaginative, loyal, and have traveled the world in my first career as a naval officer. The poly concept of giving what you have and taking what you need is quite attractive to me. It was how my first relationships went during my formative years at high school. Poly before we knew there was a poly. Unfortunately I haven't seen it work well since, as we are all human and have our flaws. Yes, I have some as well. I prefer to be described as a “well rounded” elder gentleman with silvery blonde hair. Read into that what you will, but please be gentle. The question now becomes, “Who are you?” As I see it you are a 40 to 60 year old female switch with a desire to be alive rather than just exist. You are primarily looking for a friend, companion and play partner with in a 300 mile radius of Albuquerque, New Mexico. You enjoy play and are equally comfortable as a top or as a bottom. A long term relationship would be nice, but you know that it is important to get through a short term before you consider going further. You are also drug and disease free, financially and emotionally stable, capable of maintaining your end of a conversation, fun and not afraid of the dark. The last one of course is quite negotiable, but I love being out and about at night. Somethings you are not include: an emotional vampire, lost in some sort of fantasy, looking for a sugar daddy, a damsel in need of rescue or on the run from the law. I have no time for little girls, but am looking for a mature capable woman. With all that out of the way, here is my proposal. If we are compatible, we will not know with out talking to each other, and willing to play at least once a month not including events such as Thunder in the Mountains, South West Leather, or Evolution of the Revolution, I would like to meet you. To be honest I would prefer to play at least twice a month with a “home and home” schedule, but that might be to much depending on distance. I love to drive and travel so it isn't a problem for me. I am willing to consider blood or fluid bonding, but with out it would require a designated set of toys for each of us. Travel, event costs and toys are paid by the individual. Some people feel play is all about sex. I am not one of those people. For me play is about intimacy, trust and the experience. Sex is not my goal, but of course it isn't prohibited either. I would want to know you better first. There it is my plan, my request. Are you out there and if so, are you listening?

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ddislookin4fun
 
 Age: 27
  Florida