I want to find the woman that I can share all things with, that follows where I lead, that gives of herself, and accepts me in return.  That wants to find her way to ultimate oneness with her partner, and move beyond the humdrum of normal life.  To build a whole, rather than 2 separates, to work together in all ways, each complementing the other.  There are many vanilla things that I enjoy and/or need, foremost among them is music.  But then, life is made up of many different things, not just one.