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Hi! My name is AJ.
When it comes to BDSM, Ive been involved with it almost all of my adult life. Which means, Ive made a lot of mistakes and learned a lot too. CONSENT, CONSENT, CONSENT!!! To name a few. TRUST AND OPEN COMMUNICATION is important in every relationship, but especially here.
Its a lot more than the sex to me. Most of all, I love the openness, the acceptance, and the freedom to be who you are. I mean your true self deep down inside. When it comes to kinks, I have a lot but pain is not really high on my list. A more service oriented submissive would suit me better than than a straight masochist.
A little about me. Im not AT ALL religious. I prefer logic and science and Im pretty liberal, and a humanist! I believe in equal rights for EVERYONE!!! Im intelligent, educated, trust worthy, honest, caring, non-judgemental very direct, and very open-minded. I am a good guy and I always try and treat people well and do the right thing.
I love sports, but as I get older, I find that I either dont have the time to sit and watch it or that I would rather do something with my free time. I love cars and motorcycles among a few things but most of all, I LOOOOVE traveling! I also love being outdoors. I wish I lived in Colorado so I could go hiking, camping and wheeling! Ive also become a lot healthier over the past couple of years. Work out as much as I can and I ended up losing a ton of weight, put some muscle on and I enjoy it a lot. Im still a foodie though so gotta find the balance.
I am currently separated and do not live with my wife and hopefully our divorce will be finalized in a couple of months. Our separation was amicable so there are no problems or ugliness there, which were both happy about.
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