We are an well-educated, athletic, adventurous couple with he a Dominant, straight, conservative; and she a submissive, sexually curious, liberal. Physically, both of us are triathletes. In lifestyle, we enjoy true Domination and submission, mostly as force of will and sometimes sheer physical dominance (there are times when only the latter will do, aren't there?). We are very much into control and judicious use of sensation; but enjoy domination, discipline and control in the context of a loving, respectful relationship. With him as the one she trusts, she enjoys bondage and the sting of a well aimed flogger. She also very much enjoys the feel and the taste of a woman, especially one with the same desires as she, and he enjoys allowing her the pleasure. Our vanilla life and our fetish life are both interesting and exciting, even more so when they cross; and we search for that special woman or couple who will join us in all of our pursuits.