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What am I looking for? A friend, a mentor, a commanding presence. Someone I can trust. Someone with good judgment to whom I can submit because I know he/she is in control and things are going to be OKAY! Someone with the vision to see deep inside me, into the great girl, woman, submissive I know I am, and its experienced, knowledgeable and willing enough to come rescue her from just plain ordinary living.

I have a r/l partner and I'm committed to him, still I long for that special friend with whom to share thoughts, feelings, adventures, life. Someone that understands the power of the mind, words, imaginery, voice. Come talk to me, if you are the one I'm looking for.




3/3/2010 11:32:55 PM

Everything changes so fast lately,  even me  but somehow the needs and wants remains.  Oh well,  it is what it is and I think I rather keep things simple.   I'm a bi 49 year old sub looking for Dom / Domme for friendship, mentoring, companionship and good conversation. I would love to meet a friendly SANE Domme / Dom that enjoys sharing experiences, teaching, mentoring and/or befriending subs.

I particularly would enjoy someone local to the Seattle area to join me on some bike rides on a nice day or just hanging in the sun. I don't care about looks or age or ethnicity, that is totally unimportant to me but it would be nice if you are easy going, sane, non-conservative, non judgmental, and just a regular person.

I must say also that I'm on a long term relationship so we might become very closed friends, and that would be awesome, but I'm not replacing my partner. ;-)

Ahh I'm a regular gal that enjoys a good conversation, respect diversity and I'm very open minded but I really react poorly to those that think that because I'm a sub I automatically will respond to "cunt" "slut"  and the likes.  Sorry but not really my thing and if that disqualifies me from your list of prospects, well its ok,  it is what it is.    =�

One day I know the right one will contact me and I'll know because it will feel right.  Cool!

6/12/2007 1:24:58 PM

I think I need to clarify something because I'm getting way to many requests from people offering things that have nothing to do with my reasons to be here.   Maybe I'm not clear enough on my profile. 

I'm not looking for a lover or online teasing or fling. I  believe Dominance and submission are not measured on physical terms but in mind, soul and spirit and it continues to amaze me how hard is to find somebody that shares that belief.   

I seek a strong commanding presence that will make me feel safe, loved and cared for with guidance, friendship, setting boundaries and structure for my life.  I'm not a brat or an idiot that don't know how to take care of myself; neither am I a girl looking for cybersex or to be called in belittling ways.  I'm just an honest professional capable woman looking for the Dominant in my life. 
I know one day the One will claim me as Yours, exuding authority, and I'll look up to him/her and talk about what is important.  He/She will know me in all ways and depths creating a connection that’ll make distance a meaningless thing. 

 

 

I'm in no hurry, it is too important to be rushed into it.   

4/17/2007 10:20:20 PM

Once upon a time, I had a Master that taught me about loyalty, guidance, friendship, love, structure, rituals, honesty, transparency and respect.   All things I value greatly on my daily life.   Today I'm not His anymore, life took us to different paths.   I'm OK with that now because I carry all His teachings very deeply embedded on me.     
   
Now that I feel strong, enough to reach out and find that special someone I realized that what made my Master unique was that he taught me all those lessons and more without having the need to ask me to get a web-cam and bare my body for him on the first 10 minutes of conversation.     In fact, he never required me to get a web cam; He knew I was His in ways that no web-cam could ever broadcast.   He was a real Dom.   
   
Are those times all gone?  Was he the only one?  Is there anybody that shares a real Dom vision - mind and soul first, everything else is bound to follow?     I really hope so because I'm just starting my search and I'm longing for YOU!

Ashlee4ubb
 
 Age: 41
 F, Texas