well, obviously i can't change what i originally wrote i was looking for but now i can update.......i am still looking for a ltr with a dominant man, a truly dominant man, one that is not just playing a role, but who knows who he is and knows exactly what he needs and wants, not one that is married or hiding a girlfriend, and not one that can act dominant one minute but doesn't another. Don't get me wrong i am always up for making new friends, so please stop and say hello, even if you are not the one...... :)