Like many, I seek a submissive with heart, compassion, health and wit; a mutually satisfying connection with a girl who appreciates the value of the D/s dynamic on many levels. Easier said than done, I know..
Someone who is assertive and confident in the outside world, battling alpha control at every turn, putting out fires, getting the shit done.. and aches to relinquish all of that control and energy when we are together in the quiet - that is what I want.
If I had to label where I fall on the D/s spectrum, it would be along the line of Daddy Dom. I enjoy giving structure and guidance but also appreciate one who knows what she wants and strives to achieve her goals. There are moderate sadistic traits in my personality, which manifest when warranted.
I am also open to full TPE ownership if the connection is solid. It takes a lot of trust, but nothing really good comes easy.