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Who am I? I am a mystery, wrapped in an enigma, coated with confusion. I am not what you expect and never what you believe. I am a tough nut to crack, but once I am out of my shell, the phoenix will arise from the ashes of the shell. I am not one that most notice, and I do not look like I should. I don't believe in playing games, as I have been on the receiving end of more games then I would care to admit about. However, I don't believe that one should lay all their cards down on the table at first meeting. Where is the mystery in life then? I believe in honesty, open attitudes, and above all else the truth. Yes, I know that is the same as honesty, but it bears repeating. I am told I am funny, but don't believe it, the puns made me do it! I am a paradox, drawn to both past and future, capable of incredible passions and horrors. In short, I am a human being. And like all humans, I have flaws. But unlike many, I do not let those flaws stop me.
But who am I REALLY? I am not someone you should get to know if you are expecting someone who is in great shape or who likes to do a lot of exercise things. I am not a person who wants to be out in the sun, in fact I despise it. I am also quite comfortable, since happy isn't the right word, with my somewhat negative view of humanity in general. I have seen too much of the bad end of humanity to let it go. As I like to say, I have faith in individual people, I have no faith in humanity as a whole. And no matter what, don't expect me to change for you. I don't expect you to change for me, so why should I have to change for you.
I am a person who has a lot of interesting and kinky fantasies, things that normally are not discussed in the world at large. Yes, I am into the BDSM lifestyle, but have not had much experience offline with this. I am hoping to find someone who can help me with both sides of this. I tend to stay the same state with a given partner, as their personality will bring out one or the other side. I can switch mid-scene with the right person, or with the wrong trigger. However, the wrong triggers will be things discussed with beforehand, since I believe firmly in safe, sane and consensual. Knowing limits and triggers falls into all three. |
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