Being dominant is not just part of my sexuality. It is part of all of me. In my work life and in my social life I am dominant.I am happy to be in control. I am happy to have the responsibility and authority. One of the hard things that I learned about having this authority and the control is when NOT to use it.I have always been drawn to submissive women. Even before I could put a name to what I was, or recognized fully what I am, I always had partners that were, to some extent or other, submissive. It was what I needed. I see my relationships as partnerships. I cannot be a Dominant without a submissive. I need a submissive to really be what I need to be, to realize my potential I’m searching for an honest, caring, trusting slave. She can be a new slave or be experienced. I AM NOT LOOKKING FOR THE SLAVE OR SUB I CAN LIVE WITH. I'M LOOKING FOR THE ONE I CANT LIVE WITHOUT.