Given the culture of fear we live in, I understand the need to be guarded. But, If I message you it doesn't automatically mean I'm going to be like every other bad experience you've had with a male. I actually resent that. That's like me treating every woman on this site like some vacuous ego-stroker who's only interested in getting my hopes up and then dropping off the face of the Earth. Occasionally, I just like to have a conversation with someone via email - does there have to be an ulterior motive? |