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tallsexybete
Hetero Female, 50, Minnesota 
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tallsexybete

UPDATED March 2024

Im looking for a serious long term Ds relationship that would lead to live-in 247. Ive been in the lifestyle a number of years and started out identifying as submissive. I think this is a benefit to my skills as a Dominant. I would identify as a Erotic Dominant. And, I do have interests in other sexually exploratory arts such as tantra and karma sutra. Im semi-active in the local kink community and like to watch and learn from others safe, sane, consensual ways to inflict sweet delicious sensations - from mild to wild.

I am extremely open minded and adventurous!  Although I do have some limits and boundaries that may be flexible over time and trust is built.  It's all about adventure, exploration and DISCOVERY!  I'm 100 percent authentic, genuine, raw and incredibly kind.  Until I'm NOT!

I am open to chatting and talking with most everyone - as online or real life friends.  However, I feel I need to clarify that I am currently looking for natural born accomplished submissive men for partnership.  I have relaitonships with many different people and dont see that changing.  I know I'm more open relationship minded.  I am exploring poly.

Life goals:
* global travel
* BDSM events and parties
* Living the dynamic 247 - as lead by myself, with considered input from my partner(s).

If you're a Dominant man and interested in me?  I require that you be open minded to bottoming with me if the chemistry is there.  Bottom line with that dynamic is mutual RESPECT.  I am not interested in being a puppet to your design.  I am a strong, confident, self actualized woman and I love who I am.

Ultimately any man I choose to be with should ADORE me as is.  I realize I'm not perfect and I have things to work on too.

I enjoy receiving chivalrous acts from a man. I also think pleasantries are a nice way to interact and touch base. I enjoy a man with character - his own views of the world and a backbone to get what he needswants. Wed get along in a myriad of ways, not only related to BDSM.

I am a laid back person by nature and semi-private with a few close friends. Most of my family has passed away and the ones left that I care about do know I'm kinky!  I am compassionate, free-spirited, kind and honest. I am open minded and a bit taboo curious. Cultivating a deep meaningful connection is paramount. I dont have a lot of immediate protocol, but I do see boundaries and rules being developed over time and getting to know one another. I do want someone that has his own life - his own means of support and able to support me in my endevors, but is looking to enhance his life with someone special. Someone open to love - giving and receiving. Someone looking to explore internally just as much as externally.

NOW is the TIME!  I have sacraficed enough time devoting my life to family and work.  I currently have support to travel anywhere to meet anyone that is serious and willing and able to do that with your help!  I hope to connect with someone that is genuine about their search. Please, when inquiring be thoughtful in your approach to engage conversation and show you are more than just a hello.  These one liners do not bode well with me!

I update my journal regularly and there are many of my thoughts there.  An ongoing evolution and engaging with many different people there's no lack of stimulation and ideas!

Please attach a PHOTO OF YOURSELF when contacting me, thank you in advance.  And Thank You for taking the time to read my profile.  I do hope everyone finds what they're looking for and I do activly educate and try to influence other women about FLR!  I can't be everything to everyone!

3/26/2024 2:22:16 PM: How important is your sexual relationship? What are your expectations around intimacy and sex? My sex drive ranges depending on mental stimulation and energy.  Sexual relationships are certainly of high importance.  I don’t know how aging will affect this, but I’ve always wanted more sex than my life provided or I chose to have.  I’ve been focused on finding a regular partner to build and explore sex with.  But due to my circumstances – or the person I was interested in circumstances it has literally been a barrier to building anything worth noting.  One thing I can say?  I have found toys that satisfy me more than any person I’ve sexually been with and I’m confident I can satisfy my needs solo.  Every woman should have a Njoy and a vibrator! (in my humble opinion)   Otherwise?  I expect that you love sex as much as I do!  My aim is to be sexually involved with my partner(s) and that they are sexually confident or willing to learn how to satisfy me.    At the moment, I’m not a huge fan of strap-ons.  I see it being used on occasion, if it’s not a limit, but not a regular frequent occurrence.   How do you want your spouse to express love and affection? I’m good with any of the 5 love languages.    What are your ideas around the division of household chores? I have no interest in being the lazy Domme who expaspects all household chores to be completed by the submissive.  And I don’t want to do everything by myself.  How will you prioritize your careers in relation to about your family bonds and marriage? Can everyone be retired now?

3/26/2024 2:20:27 PM: How do you deal with conflict that can not be resolved? Usually?  I cut bait if there’s an impasse.  It depends on the conflict and what it’s about. What are your expectations or boundaries around relationships outside of the marriage such as friendships or co-worker relationships? Our relationship is the priority.  I have no interest in isolating someone from outside connections.  But I also am not looking for problems.   What does betrayal and infidelity mean to you? Well?  I learned from a previous relationship that did betray and was infidelity that what hurt most was not getting the invite to participate on any level.  It was in total secret.  And, in my opinion, when that happens?  It’s irreconcilable differences. I pride myself on being approachable and navigating through real-life challenges.  When it’s done successfully it can bring deeper bonds and build trust.  Ride or die, if you may.   Where do you for see yourselves living and creating your life? It wasn’t so long ago that I was set on living the rest of my life in Minnesota.  I do own a house with an affordable mortgage and have good close friends who live there.  And I do like the political climate there compared to other states.  Minnesota takes care of its residents, unlike other states I’ve lived in.  Yes, the brutal winters suck!  But now we have climate change and this past winter was a breeze! At this time?  I am open to discussing other options.  Even though my appetite for travel is strong, I have learned the value of having a home base.  Not sure I’m looking to purge and liquidate everything and solely live out of a van. How do you feel about religion? How important are your religious beliefs or spiritual beliefs to you?
3/26/2024 2:19:40 PM: Usually it’s been about allergies to animals as I am an avid animal lover.  I am guardian to 3 cats and one small dog.  And I can tell when people don’t love my animals. How do expect to interact with your friends as a couple? When I bought my current house, I was envisioning lots of BDSM dinner parties and play parties with small groups of people (because my house is small).  Or dinner parties and game nights with vanilla friends.  I do not impose my kinky lifestyle on my vanilla friends or family, but most know that I’m kinky. I regularly get together with my vanilla friends.  That doesn’t you have to participate in every activity.  Actually, I might prefer it if you don’t join all the time. I have let my friendships with the local community BDSM people slide for the past number of years.  Since a little before Covid.  But Covid wasn’t the reason at the time.  I’d like to re-enter that world.  But prefer to have a partner(s). Do you agree with your partner’s lifestyle choices (health, diet, exercise, use of substances, sleeping habits, activities, hobbies, and professional drive/achievement) Health – generally I’m in good health or could do better if I engaged more in a healthy lifestyle (nutrition and exercise).  I am trying to transition to vaping from smoking cigarettes.  My aim is to quit altogether.  It’s an active work in progress. I drink on occasion, not an alcoholic.  I also partake in devil's cabbage on occasion.  Not every day or even every week. Diet – I am not too much of a picky eater and do like a variety of healthy foods.  Omnivore.  Although I think its all really laden with chemicals regardless if its organic or just produce from the grocery store. Exercise – I used to go to the gym pretty regularly.  I’ve gotten away from that but would like to go regularly again with a partner.  Aging is no joke and the more fit a person is the better fare from an illness or fall! Activities – I tend to enjoy hikes in nature – any nature from woods, beaches, mountains, or any other nature place.  I also like being on the water – where I can see land! Lol  And if I went on a cruise?  It’d be on a pirate ship!  Not a huge boat.

3/26/2024 2:19:05 PM: Sleep – I love my sleep!  At least 8 hours.  Some people have told me I snore. Professional Drive – good jobs are hard to find these days!  I’m driven, intelligent, and competent.  I’m currently unemployed trying to establish self-employment but not sure where all of it is going to go.  I have a limited time to devote to it Full time until I need to consider other options. How will you include your spouse in making important or personal decisions? I would prefer input from my partner, but I would have the final say.  If I need direction I’ve typically done the research and ask other supporters in my life for opinions. How will you maintain your personal identity within the marriage? How much time do you expect to spend with each other? How will you spend your free time together and apart? To be negotiated along the way. How do you feel about spending money? Due to being self sufficient I have lived on the continuum of being frugal to lavish when finances allowed.  I would never want to financially devastate anyone like some of the other Dommes I’ve heard seem to act like. What are your individual core values? Generally whole health Who are your positive relationship role models for marriage? Whose marriage do you admire and why? By now I've seen a lot of different relationships.  And every one of them about 20-25 years in there’s some serious consideration or some big obstacle that either has ended the relationship or someone has yielded and they keep on keeping on.  The relationships I’ve admired?  In public, you can tell they love each other and enjoy each others company.  I’ve always been of the mind when I partner with someone it will be forever!  Maybe that’s why I’ve been hesitant to anchor down on anyone.  And by now I have fewer years ahead of me than I do behind.  Every day is a gift!  I’ve also lost enough people in my life to know tomorrow isn’t guaranteed no matter what your age is!  I have a lust for life and want to experience as much as I can! How about YOU!?!

3/19/2024 6:21:08 PM: Houston, TXThis trip has been made possible by support from connections I’ve made over the past 28 years online nurturing relationships and building trust.  I’ve fronted plenty of trips and engagements over the years and nothing has been a waste.  All good stories and memories. I lost my job the end of last year.  I applied to various jobs that were natural advancements of my vanilla career.  Nothing panned out.  Then I had a strategic planning meeting by myself and asked myself if I could do anything and build a comfortable life doing it with my skills, knowledge and abilities PLUS my passions and life goals?  It would be traveling, being useful to people, and living a Kinky Lifestyle.You want me to work 70 plus hours a week and still be shiny and bright and have the energy to Dominate you?  GET REAL.  I'm in a position where I'm able to focus Full Time on My future and hopefully that includes finding a potential partner - or partners.  Who's ready? In my perspective?  Men are providers, and protectors and support their Domme/FLR partner – however she decides to live her life!  Her existence is your celebration!  You best believe if you’re along for the ride you’d enjoy it too!  This hang up about whether a person is professional or do it for fun?  GET REAL!  Bottom line is support to run it!  You got a hang up about that? DO NOT WASTE MY TIME.YOU WERE MEANT TO MAKE MY LIFE EASIER!  NOT BE A PAIN IN MY ASS. 

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 Beverly Hills, California