I am a safe sane Experianced Dom, able to control myself. (if you cant control yourself how can you ever control others). I do not drink (an occasional Red maybe) or smoke, I am a perfectionist, and I will repeat a process until I achieve perfection. I expect a sub's full attention, and I will get it, one way or another. Pain is a training tool, but so is humiliation, and repeat, repeat, repeat. That being said I don’t lose my temper and I don't abuse, If one method isn’t working to get what I want I will try another.
I begin training my Sub's by listening to a their requests, limits and needs, even safe words I will accept, however that wont last, because the first thing I develop is trust. Trust that I will know the sub's limits and trust that the sub has understood that’s where the sub wanted to be. I train a sub hard to make their position obvious and natural, and I will punish the sub harder to ensure your lessons are embedded in their memory.
I will make demands on every part of a sub's life, from the time they wake up to what they wear, eat and do, even how they sleep, I don’t want or need an independent, I want someone to act a certain way, purely because I might like it. But don’t make mistakes, because I wont appreciate it.
I will protect a sub I may even cherish the sub. Of course that will depend on how much further they are prepared to go, just to impress me. If not, it doesn’t matter, they will just become one of the toys I keep in my play room.
