Tifosi

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	I've loved bondage and kink for longer than I can remember. Why? I don't know; it just seems to be wired into me. I've tried to deny my desires since they have this way of complicating relationships. More than a few vanilla girlfriends made me feel like a freak because of my love of bdsm. The converse has been problematic, too. Dommes and switches I've dated have been one-dimensional, having no interests or life outside of bdsm. I want/need both - the wild/unspoken and tame. Increasingly, I feel like a man without a nation, unable to find a complete relationship. One of the things I've learned in life is that balance is key. The challenge thus far has been finding someone with whom I have chemistry, complimentary 'twists,' and is balanced (i.e., has interests and a life outside of bdsm). The fact that I list myself as a switch does not mean that I wish to top a domme. It simply means that that I'm able to enjoy both sides, in an appropriate relationship/situation.