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TheLadyLolaNJ

I am looking for a online or real time submissives. Location is unimportant.

I am a sensitive, sensual, Dominant woman, who expects My submissives to know thier place, and serve Me as I see fit.

If you think you can fulfill My needs, then email me to recieve instructions on how to proceed.


TheLadyLola.com

I have a sexy little slave that I play with online. He's such a  little cockslut, and I've been training him to be ever hungry for dick. It's a delight to play with such an enthusiastic little cocksucker. heh heh
I call him mary since he isn't really a "he" anyway. She loves to hear me tell her what a whore she is, and how I'm going to train her to be my little cock sucking hooker. She's being taught to crave the taste of cum, and to perform the best head on what ever man I choose for her to suck off. Eventually she'll be able to deepthroat any cock I put before her.
I've even denied her her genitals. She no longer has a cock, instead she has an overgrown clit that oozes lady cum. And that asshole of hers is now her pussy. I love making her spread for me. I put her on display for me whenever we chat, and soon I'm going to start having guests over to witness her humiliation.
:D

So many of my slaves have been begging to be part of my blog posts, and since this is the season of miracles (heh heh), I've decided to indulge a few and post some of my recent play, as well as some of my submissive's accounts, of our time together.
The first is by a sub I like to call "The Captain of Industry". He has a very powerful job, but needs the powerful Domination and humiliation that only a sexy powerful Woman can deliver. He gets weak when he gets an eyeful of my high heeled feet and my legs encased in very expensive nylon thigh highs. It's too explicit to post here.
To read about this experience visit my blog at
www.TheLadyLola.com
;)


If you'd beinterested in a hot cuckolding, I HIGHLY recommend heading over to my blog on www.TheLadyLola.com. It is SOOOO HOT!!!!

I have been getting very close to a very sexy Domme in Philly as of late. She's a great friend of Ms. Renee's, Mistress Diana, and I can see why. She's intelligent, charming, gorgeous, and very creative in session.
Last week I had the opportunity to enter a particularly heavy CBT session she had with an eager sub. Her rope bondage, particularly for his cock and balls, was an absolute marvel! His balls were so swollen when we were finished with him, and he the most delightful little bruise to take home as a reminder of our wicked good time! ;)
One of the most fascinating things that developed during the play was Mistress Diana and I discovered that the little masochist had a cannibalism fetish! It was FANTASTIC!!! We devised all these diabolical scenarios we threatened to submit him to, and his cock just got harder and harder. He loved hearing how we were going to DEVOUR him!
I'm going to write a description of the session for the blog on my website, so check it soon to get all the devious details. :)
Ms. Renee and I had an unbelievable double Domme session last week. I think I'm still processing it! It was 3 hours of non-stop fun, and Ms. Renee and I have this fantastic dynamic of give and take.
Our session was with a very submissive foot slave, the poor thing actually shudders with excitement when he saw our toes! And he loves everything about feet, eeeverything! I took particular delight in sitting above him and letting my feet just hover over his face while I flexed my toes and displayed my wrinkled soles without letting him touch or kiss them. I'm suuuch a tease! Heh heh
Of course, I did let him kiss and lick my feet, I practically force fed him my feet at some points, and he loved it all. I even gave him a rivlet of champagne to drink from as it ran down my foot and dripped of my toes. I'm such a softee! ;)
I finally got a few minutes yesterday to write about the "sleeping girl" fetish video shoot I participated in o so many years ago. It's up on my website's blog, and I KNOW you'll enjoy a little peek into my sub side! ;)
It's very sexy, with that creepy hotness and tension that is associated with this scenario. So check it out!
www.TheLadyLola.com
I do sub sessions sometimes, but not too often with guys. They just seem to rather have themselves at my mercy rather than the other way around. But earlier this week I had a fun session where I got to play the sub! :D
The cool thing about it was it was a "sleeping girl" scenario, which I LOVE, and havn't done in a long time. If you're unfamiliar, I dressed in p.j.'s and dressed my bondage bed up like a regular bed. I laid as if sleeping, and he posed me in different positions, and exposed parts of my body he wanted to see. Hot, right?! Oh god, it was so sexy!
It reminded me of one of my very first video shoots, same scenario, tho it ended in a more...Shall we say active participation on my part. ;)
But if you want to read about that shoot, you'll have to visit my website.
www.TheLadyLola.com
Lately, my sessions have been so erotic, they've been fueling my personal fantasies. Now, I always have fun in my own sessions, I'm the one in charge after all! Heh heh But lately I have been having such fantastic connections with my subs, developing deeper and deeper understandings of each other, that my panties are soaked not halfway thru!
And I don't think I have to tell you that my little subs just love that! ;) Especially when I am so pleased with them that I allow them the most intimate types of worship. The moresubmissive they become, the deeper they sink into space, the more aggressive I become. I twist them this way and that, gruffly tug them into position, enter them forcefully, take them and make them mine.
When I fuck a bitch, he STAYS fucked! HA!
And how grateful they are, too! Breatheless and goofy grinned at the end of session, completely used and absolutely spent...So gratifying!
:D
It's been a week for feet, boys and girls! :)
The updates are too long to post here, but you can read all about it on my blog at www.TheLadyLola.com
If you're into tease and denial, foot fetish, anal play, and bondage, you won't want to miss this! ;)
I had the most FANTASTIC foot and leg worship session yesterday! I could have played with that boy alllll day long.
He was so hungry for me, I teased him about having an oral fixation. He wanted to taste everything; my feet, my legs, my ass my pussy. He even had the courage to ask if he could give me a spank, but that was one thing I wouldn't permit him. ;)
He thought he wanted some strap-on play, but that little asshole was so tight, I told him I didn't think he was ready for that leap. He agreed.
He really loved when I trampled his cock and balls while pressing my foot against his throat, controlling his breathing. The torments I put his cock thru, vamp gloves, brushes, slapping, and vibe, made him squirm and moan.
When I had my lubed feet all over his lubed cock, I told him to look down and watch. That's when the real groaning started. He couldn't take his eyes off of my toes gripping and slipping all over the head and shaft of his cock.
I looked into his eyes, smirking, and denied him an orgasm until I said he was permitted to cum. He was begging to cum, and it pleased me to hear it, so I delayed and delayed.
I fed his cum to him with my toes, and giggled at the face he made at the taste of his jizz. It was his first time doing this type of play, and he had the biggest shit eating grin on his face when he left.
A very VERY good time! :)

I have begun to make available my most intimate apparel for consumption. ;)
I have a particular fondness for panties, myself. I always masturbate with panties on, since my clit is soooo sensitive to touch. And since I do quite a bit of playing with myself, as well as being so easy to turn on ( heh heh), I always seem to have some juice soaked panties around. :D
That's not all tho, of course. I also love the feel of nylon encasement, pantyhose, stockings, and bodystockings, OH MY!
Lovely scented intimates. ;)
I have a photo shoot coming up, and I think I may indulge in my previously mentioned fetish for it. Tall boots, velvet dress, and a vinyl headband with big hair. Maybe I'll even do an interrogation scene with a lucky boy slave. I could bind him to a chair and use some electrical torture. I just can't decide if he'll be blindfolded or have a full hood on. Heh heh! What a delicious decision to have to make!
:D
I have an Emma Peel fetish. I need to indulge it more...heh heh
I have this high necked, very short, black velvet dress, that always makes me feel like I'm her. Especially when I put on my knee high shiny black boots!
It puts me in the mood of a kick ass secret spy, that looks sexy as she's taking down men. It makes me want to tie a weak man up, and interrogate him for information! heh heh
I'd hood him, and lash him to a chair, and alternate between whispering softly into his ear and pressing my body against him, and growling angrily pinching his nipples and beating his cock and balls until he gave me what I wanted!
Ha!

Come on, little boy. Come to mummy. I know you've been very naughty, and you need a punishing. I have found your bed wet twice this week, and I thought I had made it clear to you that I won't be tolerating you pissing the sheets anymore. Do I look like I'm the type of woman that cleans up after pissy little boys? Did you think I wouldn't reprimand you? Well, you lack discipline, and maybe that's my fault, but I'm here to correct that now, aren't I?
You'll need to start wearing a diaper again. And since you like the smell of piss so much, how about I piss in this diaper and you can wear it on your face? Yes, little boy, watch mummy piss into this diaper. See how I fill it? Look at the piss, little boy, not mummy's pussy! You're so curious! You don't know anything about pussys do you? Well, you'll need to get out of the diaper stage before mummy can teach you about pussys and boobies and assholes, and how to make that tiny cock of your's feel good and squirt!
Here you go, little boy, take this diaper full of my piss, and bring it up to your face. You don't like it, do you? Well, now you know how I feel when I have to take care of your urine soaked sheets. Take that diaper into your playpen. I'm locking you in for your nap, and you won't be getting teddy to sleep with. You have to snuggle up with mummy's peepee diaper. And you think about what a filthy disgusting boy you've been!

I had a great session with one of my fetish pets earlier this week, and he brought me the silkiest stockings to wear! I smoothed them onto my legs, but I had my little pet attach the garters to them. So many men know how to remover garters, you'd be surprised how many don't know how to take them off! LOL
This time I allowed him the special treat of whorshipping my ass afetr a lengthy foot and leg rub that was very relaxing.
He was practically drooling when i rubbed my stocking clad foot on his dripping cock, and he begged me not to stop. Of course I did! And I shoved my foot into his mouth and kiss my high arched instep until I was satisfied he really couldn't take anymore.
He did get a bit saucey with me at one point, so I paddled his ass cherry red to reenforce just who was in charge! Heh heh
He left achey and happy, a big toothy grin on his face to accompany him home!

I just love when my slaves take the initiative to make me smile. It shows that they're keeping their head in the right place, thinking of my pleasure. Of course I give them tasks to do while I can't be with them, but I particularly enjoy when they go above and beyond what is specifically required of them to do things that show their devotion to my Domination.
I'll provide an example...
I have an adorable slave, who is quite the woodworker. I didn't know he was so handy, and without me giving him a directive to do so, he took it upon himself to fashion me a beautiful wooden paddle. He inscribed it with my name, in beautiful script, and enclosed it with a heart, and even highlighted the heart and my name in red paint. It's absolutely lovely! After I found out he knew his way around wood, I had him turn me a French rolling pin, also.
Both gifts arrived yesterday in the mail, and I'm saving opening them up for when he can see me. I thought he deserved to see the pleasure on my face when I open his newest tribute to his Mistress.
The dilemma I face now tho, is do I use it as soon as I get it out of the box? Or do I reserve it for when I see the sweet little slave who made it for me, in person? Decisions, decisions!
Heh heh

Last night my very good friend, Ms. Renee, and I had a photo shoot with a fantastic photographer here in Philadelphia. It was so much fun !
Ms. Renee and I had already decided how the different scenes would be composed, so we were very prepared with all our outfits when we got to the studio. The prevailing theme was "fuschia", a color both Ms. Renee and I look fantastic in! We started off with a little champagne while Ms. Renee applied her makeup. We got pretty loose, and there was plenty of giggling and joking with the photographer as we got ready.
I was Ms. Renee's submissive in the shoot, a position I often take when she and I do double sessions. I was her chair, her serving tray, and I even got to undrees her with my teeth! She also dressed me up in some gorgeous rope bondage, even going so far as to tie up my fingers. There was even a bit of choking when Ms. Renee wrapped a length of rope around my throat and squeeeezed. Heh heh.
At one point the photographer took a break to delete some of the pictures he wouldn't end up using, but there were so many good photos he said he hardly deleted any! Ms. Renee and I got a chance to review some of them as we went along, and we both looked so beautiful, I can't wait to recieve them. All my special slaves are going to be so thrilled to see thier Mistress in the submissive role that they usually perform for me!
One of my very good friends, and ProDomme extrordinaire, Ms. Renee and I are going to have a photo shoot this Monday. I'm soooo excited, because we've never done a formal photo shoot before, tho we've been discussing it for a long time now.
One of the best parts is it will display how well we work together in double sessions, particularly when I sub to her.
But the very VERY best part is, I'm gonna get some hot rope bondage! Ms. Renee is fantastic with rope, and it's going to be very intricate and pretty to look at. No doubt it will make me completely immobilized, and she'll be unleashing her wicked designs on a helpless Lady Lola! Heh heh
I'm sooooo spoiled!
Stay tuned for the photo results!
So, I've had some requests for "forced-bi" sessions. I cannot tell you how much I love the idea of this.
It's a situation ripe with humilation possibilities!
I imagine striking fear into my slutty little slave with a huge fleshy cock. So many of my trampy cockslut slaves say they want to suck a real cock, but I suspect many of them aren't quite ready for that, but that they would loooove the tease and shivering dreadful fear of what I might have them do for my amusement.
I would have my little toy blindfolded, and I'd don my strap-on. The hungry slave, with his wet open mouth, wouldn't have any idea if the cock I placed in his mouth was mine or the warm cum filled dick of my butchy man slave. But it wouldn't matter, my cock slave would have to slurp and suck, tongue and kiss anything I put between his lips!
My girlfriend Ms. Astrid and I went to a fetish party last weekend, and boy did we have fun!
Occasionally, I will do sessions with other Dommes where I am submissive, and Ms. Astrid loves having me as her little girl. I got to wear my plaid school jumper, saddle shoes, white blouse, and white knee high socks. I even had a big satin bow in my hair, and all the girls at the party ooh'd and aww'd over me, asking to hug me and braid my hair!
Ms. Astrid gave me a very sensual spanking, and my bum was cherry red. She soothed my burning skin with ice and kisses, and soon I was ready for more. I took much much more than she or I thought I could, and we were both pleased with how wet my pussy got from her sttention.
Next, she concentrated on the inside of my thighs. I held her crop in my mouth, biting down when she slapped the sensitive flesh between my legs. My skin quickly reddened under her hands, and then little purple stiplings began to surface.
Ms. Astrid displayed her handy work to Ms. Renee, who was kind enough to show up to give her support. Ms. Renee ran her long magenta fingernails across the bruising, telling me how pretty I looked with my flesh "kissed" by Ms. Astrid.
All I could do was grin at all the attention I recieved from my lovely Domme friends!
I have had alot of inquiries lately about kidnapping sessions. I find this idea fascinating, and terribly erotic.
When I imagine what I'd like to do, it usually involves one of my Domme friends and I blindfolding a sub and whisking him away to our dungeon. We'd mummify him in plastic, each body part individually encased so he can't even feel his own skin against his body.
We'd hood him, and then cage him, leaving him alone. I think he'd be frightened, he certainly wouldn't know what was going to happen to him next.
All night we'd creep in and whisper to him hypnotically. Convincing him that he was our toy now, our slave, and his old life is over. Now he is a new thing, a toy and a pet for us to use and abuse at our pleasure.
Eventually we'd remove his body wrap, but not his hood. He would continue to be blind until morning came, and then we'd expose him to the brightness of the sun, blinding him with light instead of darkness.
 We would collar him, lead him around on a leash, and force him to eat and drink from a dog bowl we filled with scraps from our table. We'd curse him, then praise him, playing him to not know what we would subject him to next. He'd be paraded in front of our friends with a tray of tea on his back, and we'd attempt to trip him up so we could punish him for his gracelessness.
 O, I could go on and on...The scenario fires my imagination...
I have a new puppy!
Friday I had a 1 1/2 playtime with a slave I've seen before, but this time he was my brand new puppy that required lots of training. :)
Before I placed my collar on him, I had to inspect my potential puppy. I looked into his mouth and checked his teeth, then his forepaws and hind legs. He was fixed, but I don't breed my puppies, tho his bits were in working order! :)
I began with what I thought would be the easier trick to learn....begging. But he had a very difficult time getting his positioning just right, and I had him perform it over and over.
When he finally got begging right, I had him learn how to roll over, and surprisingly he executed that gracefully from the start. After that came playing dead. I made my finger into a gun, and said "Bang!", and my puppy fell over with his tongue hanging out.
For being such a good boy, he got alot of belly rubs, and cuddle time with his trainer. When I was sure he had retained all his training, I gave him some cage time to rest and think about his training. He recieved a little dish of water for all his thirsty work, and he took a little quiet time curled up in his cage.
I let him out for play with his squeaky toy, and we had alot of fun playing "fetch" and rolling arounsd on the floor. My little puppy was so happy, his tail wouldn't stop wagging!
I believe he is going to be one fine show dog, but I needed to be sure he could hold his positions under duress. Dog shows are very distracting, so I had him hold a straight back, straight hind legs, and no whimpering, as I beat his balls and cock with my crop.
He must have enjoyed it, because he got very drippy, the moisture coating his balls as it leaked from the tip of his pink cock. He was a very good boy as I beat him relentlessly, and was grateful to his Mistress, licking my hand thankfully.
GOOD BOY! ;)
My goodness did I get an ass worshipping today! A lovely older gentleman got in touch with me about having some playtime, and we chatted about what he'd like.
He was absolutely adamant about getting his nose into my bum! Heh heh He said he just loves the taste and smell of a woman's asshole, and I was more than happy to oblige!
I even did him the added favor of not showering before seeing him, just to make sure I was as musky as possible. Unfortunately I maybe should have went 2 days, because tho my taste was fantastic for him, I wasn't quite scented enough. O well, he still had a fantastic time.
I bent over the bed to give him a nice view, and he was breatheless with desire, gushing about how perfect my ass was. Delightful! And when he finally got his face nestled between my cheeks he was in heaven.
I laid him out on the bed, and plopped down on his face, wiggling to get his nose right up into my hole. It wasn't long before he was too excited to go on, and came before I realized he was ready! Naughty man! If I had nown he was so close I would have slowed it up a bit, but he snuck it in on me! Heh heh
I'll have to keep a close eye on him next time! :)
The other day I had a real time session with a very eager to please new slave.
He has a weakness for schoolgirls (one of my FAVORITE roleplays), and I wore my grey jumper, white cotton panties, white knee high socks, and leather mary janes. I put my hair in a ponytail with a satin bow.
At first I had him bound with bondage tape to a chair with his shirt off. I plucked at his nipples and teased him by lifting my dress up to show him my panties. I put my hands between my thighs and played with my pussy over my cotton undies, and asked him if he liked to watch me be naughty.
He couldn't take his eyes off of my fingers as a wet spot began to appear. I laughed at him, and told him he was a very dirty man, and that he should be punished for wanting to see a girl do these things to herself.
I decided to tease him some more, and I said that he didn't deserve to get any relief, but that I did. I rubbed my pussy against his thigh, and kissed his taped mouth. All I could hear was his muffled moans, and I giggled that he wasn't going to get anything from me until he paid the price.
I flogged his ass and back while I tugged on his balls. He wiggled and groaned, but was good and didn't try to get away. I told him he could have a choice between worshipping my ass or making an offering to me of his orgasm. He was so conflicted! Heh heh...
He finally decided that he just had to lick my asshole, so I pulled my panties down and leaned over the bondage bed. I told him to start at my ankles and work his way up. He kissed and licked over my calves and up my thighs, placing kisses all over my ass cheeks. When he was finally permitted to lick my asshole he caressed it with his tongue until it dripped with saliva.
My poor fristrated slave was made to leave with a raging hard on, and full achey balls! Perhaps I'll take pity on him next time...But maybe not! HA!
I love when I get to session with my online slaves.
Sometimes I'll not let them see me, and it makes me feel omnipotent, like a Goddess influencing her mortal pets. Heh heh I see all , I know all, I control all.
I particularly love setting them tasks to do when I'm not chatting with them. One of my slaves is currently on vacation, so he has been told to fashion a fantasy about he and I on vacation together, with him servicing me in a tropical setting.
I can't wait to read what his kinky little mind has crafted!
One of my favorite things to do in session is to have another Domme with me. My very first sessions were doubles with more experienced Mistresses who guided and trained me, and it was an amazing experience for me and the subs.

Having 2 Mistresses controlling a bound slave, teasing him with our bodies, pressing him between us, each of us taking a body half and working him over.

It becomes sensory overload for the slave, and he's overwhelmed with the sensations and attention. I love seeing that happen to a sub, the look of complete bliss as we double flog him, double restrain him, double smother him,  double Dominate him.

And we, as the Mistresses, love it too. We talk to each other about our toy as if he isn't even there, deciding what to do with him next. We throw suggestions to each other, bouncing possibilities between us, deciding on what we would find the most entertaining. And the obedient sub has no choice but to perform as we see fit, in the face of 2 powerful Dominant women!
A lovely smothering session with one of my subs last Friday totally made my day. My little pet was rock hard the entire time, a very flattering response for his Mistress.

I began by suspending him by his wrists, and reddening his firm ass. I whispered in his ear that he was mine as I raked my nails up and down his body. I smacked his cock, making it bob and bounce with each slap.
I clipped clothsepins to his nipples, and flicked them with my fingers. He winced when I removed them and pressed on the recently pinched flesh.
I layed him on the floor and cropped his cock and balls as I smothered his face with my ass. He struggled to breathe but I rode him like a bull, and didn't let him up for air until he couldn't hold it any longer. Every time I lifted my ass off of his face, I told him to take a good deep gulp because he wasn't going to get another one.
He was red faced and sweating, struggling for air. I told him he didn't deserve to breathe and I continued to beat his cock while suffocating him.
My little pet came while I smashed my cheeks against him. He was so thankful, and I had a fantastic time completely Dominating him.
O! The pictures are turning out soooo well! I'm particularly fond of the way my legs are looking in the seamed latex stockings. And my ass looks so great peeking out from the latex cami garter. My tits are even visible because of the translucent nature of the latex!
I looooove doing photo sessions!
O yes! I've got my new latex outfit, and I'm taking pictures in it in a few minutes! It is sooooo sexy! Latex stockings too! So hot!

I am very excited about seeing one of my subs tomorrow. We have been sending each other emails about what we're going to explore for 2 weeks now! 
He's very into smothering, and I plan to suction my ass to his face and torment his nipples and cock until he thinks he's going to suffocate! I'm sure I'll end up riding his face like a bucking bronco as he struggles to breathe...Then he's going to chock on my strap-on.
What a lucky little pet! :)

I love how the weather is finally beginning to warm up. I cannot wait to get some public humiliation going with some submissives.
One of my favorite things to do is tie a slave to a tree in the woods, flogging him and forcing him to drink a gallon of water.
Watching a slave humiliate himself by pissing all over himself is wicked good times!
I just had the lovliest conversation with a possible slave! He is interested in forced bi and humiliation. His fantasy is to be instructed, in great detail, by a Mistress on how to suck cock! And eventually to recieve facials from a roomful of men. Fabulous! So tasty!

The best part was he wanted to hear me laughing at him wickedly in the background. He was so enamoured of my laugh, and he's willing to perform any silly little antic I require to hear me laughing at him. I can't wait to see this glorious little plaything!
I'm very interested in online Domination and service, as well as real time. It has always been a passion of mine to control men with simply my voice. I love the idea of remotely influencing my slaves to serve me, and perform tasks to my specifications.

I particularly enjoy getting them worked up into a frenzy, then denying them the ability to orgasm. I adore making my slaves save up thier seed, until I decide they're worthy of release.

How will you change my mind to allow your orgasm, little pet?