I'm wanting to get reacquainted with the lifestyle after being away from it for 30 years. I'm seeking to that end a fem sub/slave for friendship first and then of we both agree a discreet non 24/7 relationship. I believe that my sub/slave while giving me total , trust, respect and obedience is also the trust and repsect. My in-terest is in the D's aspect of the lifestyle while keeping pain to a senual, erotic level. She must her own money and housing as I am not able to suppy either at this time due to the health of my "va-nallia" spouse, who has no ability or interest in the lifestylel. Any unowed femsub is more than welcome to contact me if they wish. I recoveromg from a deached retina at themoment. But I;d stilllike to hear from you'll.