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SensualDaddyDom
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| Female sub. I like all kinds of Doms, however, I am drawn to Daddies. Intelligence and stimulating conversation is important.
I'm strictly monogamous.
Take claim over her mind her body will follow.
It can happen; you just have to believe.
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Anger is a natural human emotion; I get angry; we all get angry about things, right? The thing is, in most situations, it's best to cool off and respond to a situation, rather than to react to it.
That being said, anger followed by immediate reaction can be a life-saving tool. Many of the capabilities that we humans have are designed for survival and defense.
So, if something occurs and it makes you angry yet, it is not a situation where you need to immediately react in order to survive or save a life, you probably have time to remove yourself from the situation and think.
Years ago, I started working on myself and my anger. I knew that it was going to be baby steps. I decided to simply pay attention to and Your sounds), then other human creatures. Another theory I have is that, 30% of all Doms believe that anger and manipulation are the route to take in a relationship with a sub. I try to very sweetly explain to them, that is simply not the case. I know I cannot change anyone but myself but, I remember the day I realized I had to make a change about my anger issues. And, it was hearing it from a coworker in 1993 that got me started on the path of making my change.
So please, if you have anger management issues, start making the change. Let's all stop being angry; let's all stop reacting; let's all start thinking; let's all start responding instead of reacting. I immediately terminate communication with any Dom who blows anger my way. And, it's a shame because, without that anger thing.... Who knows where we could've gone together.
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Hey Dom recently told me, who barely knew me, in conversation that, because I was not with any of the Doms I have been with, that meant, all of my relationships have been failures.
I have put considerable thought into this. I have come to the conclusion that, this gentleman was incorrect.
I believe that, I do not need to be married to my first master nor my last Dom, in order to see them as successful relationships. The fact that my first master, I met over 20 years ago, is still one of my best friends, and I am, till this day trusted and allowed full access call him if needed, proves to me the relationship never failed.
I also believe, the fact that, I am still dear friends with my last Dom, proves to me that relationship never failed.
Yes, there were some in between; but not many. I would much rather date a man who's ex-girlfriend, I could actually call and talk to, rather than date a man, who is ex-girlfriend was angry and bitter and had to be forceful he kept away from us. Isn't that the red light? Should I care that he's handsome and successful and funny but not married?
Why is it that because I'm not married, my relationships or my life, or anything about me should bleed failure?
I really do become exacerbated when I feel like, my integrity or my character is being challenged. I would really like to ask that you become mind enough to not make assumptions of what you think I am before getting to know me please.
I am going to be so bold as to say, any girl that can call her first master, and after his permission, and you the phone to ask him anything you like shows not only, a successful relationship but, also, that you are sitting next to a good girl. Big Smile.
A gentleman actually had the audacity to challenge my statement to him that yes sir, I am not just a good girl, I am a very good girl.
I became a little flustered; I do admit that I became defensive and, I did not like my truthful statement about myself being challenged. There were lots of questions and, I gave the gentleman the benefit of the doubt before I expressed my feelings. After expressing my feelings, she began to drill me with questions about how I was a good girl. With that being said, I am all about a good interrogation. Smiling giggling.. I do; I completely admit that, and interrogation that may be a bit of a drill, as well as borderline aggressive excites me to no end. Especially, if he is moving around the room and very engaged and obviously passionate about what you talking to me about or what he's asking me about. There are no words to express what happens to my mind and my body after that time spent with him and also, what happens to my mind and my body for days and days and sometimes weeks to follow. I have not been in that situation many times, however, the few times that I have, they were memorable for a lifetime and I will always have those memories inside of me. What this gentleman did it was, actually quite rude and, it made me run run run runaway. I don't think we should be going around questioning anyone's integrity or belief system or character or what they believe their relationships to be or have been. I especially don't think we should do that to anyone that we don't know well. There was nothing arousing about being disbelieved and being questioned about my truth of where I've been in life. Not a good idea to attempt to do that to a 43-year-old woman with a little Little bit of a brain. Bad bad bad he was a bad daddy. Now I am giggling and smiling. I feel so much better. Have a great day collar world!
This journal entry was accomplished via voice to text. It has not yet been checked for spelling and grammatical errors. |
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I know you can't see my profile. It is open to view. Apparently, there is some sort of problem. I am looking into it. If you would like my profile, please let me know and I will email it to you. Thank you. |
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Love is, giving someone your heart and trusting them not to break it. |
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Dear Lipton,
Extra Noodle, is too much noodle. |
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Yahoo Messanger is not a well functioning application; it's so full of glitches and inconvenience of data exchange and document sharing... So, it's been deleted from my devices. Bye bye Yahoo Messanger; we had a good run; I sincerely tried to make it work. Smiling |
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A lot of men don't understand that, with a woman of great ability to feel the most powerful pleasures seemingly easily, comes also, with great ability to feel the most powerful sadness. Being a sub with hyper sensitive hearing, who is hyper sensitive to your voice and touch and sounds and looks.... Is crazy deep and mad arousing... But, being that kind of girl comes with a price. Nothing's free. She can potentially pay a price that you may never comprehend, when she feels you're not happy... Especially if she feels it's due to her. Soooooo, be careful with that girl's little heart. I mean like, beat that ass but, take it easy on the heart. :-) mmmmmm ass beating. Yummmmmmm. Smiling. Giggling. |
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Are there any Daddies/Doms/Sirs/Reasonable Masters, With manners yet, dirty as hell when we're alone or during private playtime, sans Anger Management Issues, of whom to I can belong out there?
Preferably not married, he should be. It would be nice if he knew and understood what a strong, experienced sub with a slave's heart is? It would be great if he knew what a "babygirl" is; and, if he understood I've transitioned and grown from sub/slave to babygirl, over the past few years and, he didn't mind if I sometimes called him "Daddy." Sir is really nice; Master is really really nice; DaDDy is really fun and, it's a new level of HOT for me. I'm a reasonable girl; I know not all Doms wish to be called, "Daddy", all the time. I like it but, I'm not a "microthat'sallalimitsoNO", kinda girl. Actually, my hardest limits are as follows:
- Do not share me
- Do not harm me
- Do not put me in danger (legal or otherwise)
- Do not make me sick
- Do not neglect me or ignore me or abuse me
If these seem unreasonable, please do drop me a note. I'd love to debate a bit on them.
"Bring it"
That's correct; I am strong, not a bitch; I am weak, not a mindless creature. I am full of emotions, overflowing with passion, drowning in dreams and I get lost in fantasy. I don't, however, believe in fairytales; I'm mature enough to know they don't exist; but, it's nice to pretend.
Smiling.
P.S. I've decided checking my grammar and spelling and such gives me a brainache; I don't mind at all being corrected. I'll happily change any flaws upon pleasant request. |
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I would love to speak with someone to whom I'm completely understood. It appears as though, that may be, either too tall an order or, I'm too impatient. :-)
I just want to be able to relax my brain, in your presence, and not have to work in overdrive figuring us out. I can see why many subs appear to be so difficultly misunderstood. I can see why, even those that true of heart could mistaken as not to be just so. They're tired and weakened and sometimes feeling like they have to give in to someone they've just met. They may be feeling lost, weary, weak and begin compromising themselves. Why would a strong anything compromise itself? The submissive female animal in the wild knows who her Master is. Right? We see mostly the male coming at her, jumping or pouncing on her back, biting down on the scruff of her neck. Right? He hunted her; he tracked her scent; he watched her and he showed her, right away, what he was. She didn't have to walk tirelessly through the wilderness looking, asking for direction, stop feeding herself or lose track of her pack. He was King, he found her, he showed her who and what he was. She sniffed and maybe growled a little. She didn't have to exhaust herself trying to figure out what he was though. He showed himself to her. She could relax, eventually and, let him claim her. And, she knew he was right.
The subs are tired Doms. They're feeling a little weary. They're really trying but, are human also and, getting confused.
Did you know? The human brain can't tell The difference between what is real and what is not real?
That's why we can sit in a chair, in a room and look at a screen depicting a roller coaster ride and, we actually believe that we are on that ride.
Think about it. Out own brains can and are brainwashing themselves.
Awesome brain! Comes in handy for us right? We love this capability when it brings us temporary pleasure! Think.
Where has that real but maybe tired, weary, weakened, potentially a little confused and used sub's brain before it met you? That beautiful mind your looking into, may even be a tad to washed. Heal her first. Heal her, like only a Master could. Provide her with clarity. Give her as chance to remember what she is.
So, it's hunt, sniff, show, tell, ask, HEAL then claim her. Heal her brain and she'll love you. Heal her brain, her heart and keep feeding them, keep watch and control them properly and she'll love her Master forever.
Sometimes, I wish I were a lioness. Life would be grand. Alas, I am but a human.
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So far, so good on this site. Lunch or coffee has been OK. However, evening dinner or bar with a band and some drinks was more relaxing, arousing and intimate. So, I'm going ask for first time dates be in the evening; if we have a nice evening, maybe we can enjoy a little more into the night. Maybe on the beach? Who knows. :-)
I've realized I like motorcycles. Unfortunately, the "motorcycle", or "Harley Davidson", full blown lifestyle is not for me. :-). No offense.
Lastly, insulting me, for any reason, honestly, truly, wholeheartedly, hand on the bible swear... Is so totally laughable. However, it makes me feel bad for the poor weak, cowardly, immature Master embarrass himself. So, while it can be very amusing, I'd prefer not to witness that embarrassing display. I am extremely sympathetic at heart. I feel embarrassed for a Master of whom is suckin ditch water; it's so sad. :-)
But, comedy trumps. So, if you must, know I'm smiling big and, most likely laughing initially. :-)
P.S. I'm single and I don't like cats. :) |
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So far this site has been interesting. I've met some pretty incredible people. One thing I don't understand is, "Yes, those of us truly seeking forever love relationships, do need to guard our hearts, quite a bit, in the beginning. However, while staying guarded, we should be ourselves during the process, shouldn't we?" If were overly happy, energetic and full of excitement on one day, we should share that to the fullest, no? If the next day, we break a leg, playing on the kiddie swings at the park and land in the ER, should we not share that to it's fullest? LOL. This didn't happen to me; it did, however, recently happen to my 6'6", 300lb, slow but adorable, 37 y/o, nephew, recently. I felt bad for him but, OMG, I wished I had been there to see it! Anyway, back to my point. So, yes protect our hearts. But, within the D/s, BDSM, Master/slave world, do we, more importantly, should we hold back and play that, " hide who or what I really am for a while", game? Vanillas are pros at this game. Frankly, I dislike it very much. That being said, HI! I'M TERESA!! MY BIGGEST WEAKNESS IS, HIDING AND SUBDUING MY EXTROVERTED ME! Don't hate. I was born that way. hehehe. I have blue days also, where I'm quiet, somewhat lethargic and deep in thought. But, hardly anyone knows that side of me. That's when I'm most vulnerable & I may even introvert myself for a few days. If you're really into me, I'll tell you about it though. It might be a long email though. lol. There's a lot goin on in this girl's brain. A LOT!
I am actually soliciting some input on this topic.
When I'm writing, I get easily side tracked.
Thank you community, for your time.
Hide? Or not to hide? Is my personality to overbearing? Hold back? If so, isn't that lying? I dunno!
Teresa |
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| Age: 32 |
| United Kingdom |
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