I'm a newbie to the lifestyle, I have been in a relationship for 4 years where I was very dominant but not in the community. I guess you could say that I am looking for a submissive not a slave. I am also looking for a princess by day and a slut at night. Outside of the bedroom (as my name says) I am very tender outside of the "bedroom" but very rough in the bedroom. I should also warn you that I love anal play and anal sex while doing bondage and disclipline.
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