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I am an extremely creative person and a bit of a computer nerd (a cute computer nerd) who teaches herself programming in her spare time when I should be writing. I'm also an entrepreneur who is on the brink of leaving my day job behind. I am a city person, it inspires me to be in the city. In addition to being creative, I also love to read and can talk politics but I will come at you from a liberal POV, (shocker, I know). I don't have kids and don't want them. Love them and they totally dig me, but don't want to raise them, mine or anyone else's. I've been looking for a life partner all my life and I've had many options but none were the right fit. Lately there is another side creeping in who is ready to let go of that fantasy and instead concentrate on building my life alone. The point is that I'm not sure what I want anymore. The reason I'm here is I've always wanted to date a Dominant man, someone who understands I am an equal in life and that being intimately submissive is a willful and trusting act on my part. I attract a lot of submissive men because I am a very strong person and am not afraid of honesty and confrontation (in the positive sense, not the slap someone upside the head sense, although I am definitely capable of issuing a verbal slap). Sadly, I'm just not attracted to them. A conundrum, I know. I'm for sure not looking for a quick lay or a casual relationship so if that's what you are looking for, I totally respect that, but you won't get it from me. I need to be seriously courted and get to know and trust you and ultimately you'd have to convince me that being with you is more beneficial than being alone. I usually go for the clean-cut city professional type over 6' tall (I'm 5'9 and wear heels so I need someone whose head hovers in the same atmospheric layer). I don't mind a few extra pounds as long as it's not obese. If you have a creative side, so much the better. If you've read this far, I'm impressed. My exercises of choice are swimming and yoga, both are meditative yet challenging, a combination that works well for me. I'm 5'9" and often wear 3 - 4" heels. Average weight, i.e., not a waif but not large either, just a normal build. Slightly longer than shoulder-length straight brown hair and blue eyes (VERY blue, my eyes are among my best features). Oh and I love animals. If there is any animal on this earth that you don't like, then I won't like you. It's a sign of compassion, a very important aspect in a Dominant person. Without compassion, there is just selfishness and cruelty.

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LadyNovella
 
 Age: 33
 TUCSON, Arizona