i am new to the bdsm community and right now am looking to be friends with other subs and possible a Mistress on-line. i am no slave nor am i property as no one will ever own me although my heart can be held by one very special person. i believe subs can offer each other important support as friends and sisters.i am willing to learn as i don't know much about being a sub but am willing to give my all. i have been reading all i can but truly believe that one needs a great teacher to really learn. i have a quick wit which at times can get me into trouble but it can be oh so much fun *ggls*. i am a lesbian so please no more males. i am femme and love to dress sexy. i don't know my limits yet but do have boundries that may not be crossed. i am older but wiser for it.