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	OWW! That hurts but I kind of like it. I’m TehBetman and I’m pretty awesome. But here’s the lowdown. I work a lot and I’m usually volunteering at my local church so if it seems like I’m ignoring you I’m not. I’m also trying very hard to go back to school to become an R/N and then eventually one day a Doctor. So this means I’m studying a lot. Sometimes there are just not enough hours in the week for all the things I want to do. But I really want to get back out in the scene so I’m going to make it a priority to do so because life without kink is terribly boring. About me: I work in a Dialysis clinic and you might have guessed it I enjoy sticking people with needles. It’s part of the reason I wanted the job. So if you happen to be my plaything then expect needles (just saying). I’m 24 years old and I have my own place that I’m proud of. I also have an awesome cat named Boo and he comes first in my life. Piss of my cat and we have problems. Now I’m not really interested in having conversations about why dogs are better blah blah blah. I have a cat and I have a cat because I do end of story. In my free time when I have it I enjoy watching all kinds of movies. Anything from crappy poobomb horror movies to action, and comedy. I don’t know actors so please let’s not talk about who’s in what with who. Another thing about me you will eventually see is that I look at the glass half full. That’s right I’m an optimist. It’s taken awhile but I’ve learned that seeing things from the good side and it makes life a whole hell of a lot nicer. I also own a car and it’s not a pile either. I own a Nissan Sentra and it has yet to be christen. Which brings me to my next point. I WILL NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOU. Unless of course we decided to become a thing then changes get slightly better. I have already lost my V Card but Sex is special and I want it to mean something. Now that doesn’t mean we can’t full around. I will gladly tie you down and play with your naughty bits. But there shall be no penis in vagina action. Good; now that we have that cleared let’s keep this train rolling. Fetishes: Even though there is an entire section detected to this I want to explain something’s. I am a switch. This means that I play both top and bottom. It sometimes boils down to who I’m playing with. However I see it as; I scratch your back you scratch mine. Or if I feel like throwing you over my shoulder and having my way with you tonight I will. I don’t like setting standards for who’s the big spoon and who’s the little spoon. That takes too much damn time. So whatever happens; happens. This brings me to the next important detail “trust”. If I don’t trust you I will not play with you. So when finding new playmates I take the hangout phase seriously. We may talk on the phone for a while, txt, message, or even just chill. The reason I do this because let’s face it when I’m tied down and I say RED I mean, “Stop wtf you are doing or this will end badly”. It also helps in communication I believe especially while playing. You may say Oww but we both know you want more. So that about sums it up. What am I looking for: Well to be honest I want the whole package? I’m 24 years old and I’m tired of the bullshit games. I want to find someone that not only I have fun with but someone that snuggle up with. Life is too short to spend it alone and all that bull about I’m carrier driven or I’m focusing on school can bite me. We make time for the people we care about its just that easy. Things I hate: Drama, manipulators, Liars. That covers the biggies. But in conclusion I am really a nice person and I know how to have. I am really looking forward to meeting you so feel free to send a message. I almost always reply back so if you are feeling doubtful just do what I do. Take a deep breath and just type what’s on your mind.

12/11/2013 10:45:37 PM

Ah day 1.

So after having a pretty major surgery I've noticed that I miss kink. I have been well was an active member in my community on for almost 2 years. I had a great partner and well things went south. I have since deactivated my account thinking it would be best however I feel like there’s something missing. Hopefully though I can fill the void soon and move on with my life.