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The Shorter version:
I would like to meet a guy that can see me where I'm at, appreciate it, and wants to become a part of it. I hope to do the same with him.
Confidence is another important factor for me. Sometimes we all lack confidence. If we don't we are just being cocky. However, a guy that is confident in himself is an attractive quality.
A guy that intelligent. This does not mean education. Intelligence is the ability to learn, not a measure of what one has learned. I would like a guy that is constantly learning, about himself, about me, about the world, etc.
A guy that laughs. Humor is important to me. For a guy to interest me he not only would need to be able to laugh at jokes, but also himself. Laughing at yourself shows you agree you're not perfect.
Again thanks for reading all of this. And if you would like to, please contact me.
The Longer version:
I am new to the man-on-man scene. I would like to jump in with a guy that is aware I'm new to this, and will push me to explore. While allowing me to hesitate, a little.
What that looks like for me is a guy that is stable and secure in himself so that I can learn from him and build stability.
I think if I could chose a guy he would be masculine. Formally I had this in my head as the ultra-dominant ideal. While that is an important part of the masculine quality, it is not the summation of it.
So, if you are still reading I will tell you a bit about me. I am now 25 and still in the closet for many reasons. I consider myself smart though spelling isn't my thing I am quite articulate. I am double majored and triple minored so school was a big part of my life.
I have spent a great portion of my life in an academic setting. I developed many skills, music, math, etc. However, it wasn't until recently I discovered the door. I mean outside is a great place to be. In the last year I've started to get out more. Hiking, climbing (limited experience bouldering but way fun) SCUBA diving, are some of the things I like to do.
Also, the guy I'm looking for would be a good teacher. Not only in the bedroom, but in life, new experiences are important and need to be shared. I don't want to appear as though I'm clueless, but I will be the first to admit when I'm vulnerable and in need of some guidance.
Guidance looks a bit difficult for me as I am stubborn, I like to figure stuff out on my own. Sometimes it takes a dominant approach get me to listen. This is my personality. So that stubborn streak permeates both inside and outside the bedroom. I know there are other smarter people out there. Sometimes it takes a bit of work to make me realize their intelligence is something I can learn from and isn't a constant challenge to my own.
I recovered from breaking both my ankles in a hiking accident and am now well, less fit than I was in college. I would like a boot-camp coach or someone who could keep me in check with my goals.
If you are interested in getting to know me further please contact me (teachme3229 at ya who). I do apologize if I don't respond quickly I do try to check this about once a week but I sometimes forget about it.
Thanks for finishing this little description and have a great day,
Me
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