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| Due to my job, I will not upload a pic. I will gladly email them, however.
I'm a good looking, slim, tattooed, middle school teacher, who is seeking two very different things: a playmate or a relationship.
As for a playmate, I'd like a submissive female. I'll leave it at that, simply because everyone's an individual, and I'd rather get to know people based on their own merits. I'm really not interested in someone who is already active with someone else. I know this means that I probably won't meet anyone off of here...seems like fucking whoever you want, whenever you want, is the name of the game on . I'm not ok with that.
When it comes to a relationship, I am much more particular. I require a submissive girl who needs a Daddy-type Dom. Keep in mind, this doesn't necessarily mean that she needs to be specifically a baby girl. I'm not so focused on the age-related aspect of the relationship...more the general dynamic. Specifically, the dominance combined with nurturing and affection. I don't require you to dress like a little girl or act like one. But I expect you to have a baby-girlish mindset: take care of me, and I will take care of you, via compassion, discipline, and high expectations of each other. I own you, and you WANT to be owned. On the same token, I belong to you happily. I came to realize my role/position quite some time ago, on my own, without researching kink in any way. As such, I'm different than most so-called Daddies. Which is cool by me. I don't identify with scenes and communities much. This is my bedroom and my life, after all.
I am very affectionate, and I want a woman who is equally so. I like to touch and be touched, kiss and be kissed, flirt and flirted with. No, you don't have to drape yourself all over me all the time. But even touching my neck or head as you walk by, or a quick kiss, can mean everything. Running your fingertips across my head, neck, and chest and rubbing and back when we're in bed (I would, of course, do the same for you) is a necessity. And when we are out, having you happily on my arm, or holding my hand, is something I'd expect. It should be very clear to people that we are together. To sum it up: no cold fish.
It helps if you're a nerd in some way. Personally, I'm a history, sci fi, music, and illustration nerd. Passions are a must. Women who are punk, or have some sort of punk/alternative background are a plus, if only for some common ground. But if you're not, it's ok...I am eclectic person.
I'm not rich, and I never will be. I'm punk at heart, and I have no interest in materialism. I'll never be able to afford to eat out all the time, drive a nice car, or have a sweet house. I want a simple life, surrounded by art and books, and I want a woman that wants the same thing. Take simple pleasure in a good cup of coffee and a walk through the neighborhood. Raid thrift stores and garage sales with me. Wave the anti-HGTV banner with me, because you know as well as I do that's nothing more than blatant consumerism and one-upping. I love, style, design, art, etc., but not if it becomes the biggest expense.
I have a strong preference for a woman who looks and dresses like a lady. Not into sweats and sneakers. Once in a while is cool. But I prefer a girl to be made up, and looking nice most of the time when possible. I like a woman who likes to wear dresses, heels, cardigans, pretty lingerie, knee highs and thigh highs, etc., and likes to show off a tasteful amount of skin. Leggings are nice too.
Physically, I'm open to different sizes and race doesn't matter. HOWEVER...I'm pretty ass obsessed, and I want my woman to have a booty. I'll leave it at that.
A woman that sleeps naked is also preferred.
I would like to have a family. So, if you want to have kids, that would be great. Besides, pregnancy is very sexy. ;) If you have kids, that could be ok as well. I've been a step parent before, and I'm willing to step into that role again, but only if you want more kids in the future.
I am NOT into poly. Even if our relationship is strictly sexual, you belong to me. I don't share. I never have, and I never will. If you're not good with monogamy, please don't bother. This is a deal breaker on the relationship front. I will find out if you're a cheater, and if we are in a relationship, you will be completely cut out of my life without a word if that happens.
Also, I don't do munches, "households", or whatever. I really don't have much interest in the fetish community. Meeting up with people who I would have almost nothing in common with outside of a few sexual interests doesn't interest me. So, if that's what you're about, have a nice day. I want someone who will be more than happy to delete their profile here when she decides to commit to me. Likewise, I would gladly do the same.
I'm not going to consider you for a relationship if your profile is filled with nudes and pics of you playing with other people, ESPECIALLY if you mention you have children. Grow up. I'm not interested in those who put themselves on display for just anyone to look at. If you're going to be my girl, some pretty pics are ok. But, I sure as hell don't wanna see some other guys dick in your mouth, or cum on your face, or whatever. You should only be interested in revealing your body and playtime abilities to the man who will have you. Also, girls who think it's still monogamous if they only play with other girls can keep on going. I'm not with that line of thinking.
All of this probably means I won't find anyone on here for a lasting relationship or even playmates, which isn't surprising. The girls I have had the longest, most fulfilling relationships with didn't come from a fetish background. We discovered our own dom/sub dynamic and fostered it together. But, hey...who knows?
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