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Have been away and returned to find a number of messages from potential partners... Alas its the same old story again; What is it with men on here, why do you pretend to be something you obviously are not!!! Oh and please note I am not interested in below younger then myself... Please do us a favour I am not looking for a toy boy!! I do sincerely apologies to the wonderful DOMs on the site who been most pleasant individuals to talk with and meet... they have been open and honest including introducing their vanilla life partners (wife / Gstyle they lead outside of kink. For the others who pretend, gosh!!!! If I was to past all the messages in my journal then some of you guys would be seen through your image and there would be no place on the site for you to hide.... Obviously you would take the easy option and create another profile; as some of you have done once you have been found out!!! Why don't you wannabe dominants just grow up and be honest, both with yourself and the person you are trying to partner. This is not a website where you can act through What you may have read in fifty shades of Grey, or the Story of "O". These are both fictional stories and the writers have made millions out of their respective books... You are no Christen Grey and I am no under 30 lady smitten by your words. So guys do us all a favour and stop casting your nest to entice us in your web of lies!! Hope this helps you young guns (little experience) to understand what a true dominant is worth his weight in gold. A mediocre master tells A good master controls An excellent master explains A True master INSPIRES which in turn leads the sub's mind, body and soul to automatically follow her master.

23/06/14 Update... The gentleman who I thought was the one for me turned out to be nothing more than a game player... Never mind need to dust myself down and get back on the saddle again. Just don't understand what is to be gained by these so called DOMs who say one thing but turn out to be something else... Argh!!!! Hope there is someone out there who knows the difference between being A dominant and domineering. Hope this helps the minority so called DOMs how to appreciate a sub:-) 1. Attention give it to her daily, even a quick thinking of you 2. Be her first, regardless of how experienced she is be her first in some positive way 3. Commit - poly or not if you're her Dom be her Dom and see it as an honor and responsibility 4. Discipline her when necessary, not too much but not too lazy 5. Enjoy her silly, funny, or cute side she may grow out of it or you may miss it 6. Finger her the way only you can 7. Give her a reason for (or avoid) rules that confuse her 8. Grab her suddenly for a passionate kiss often 9. Help her accomplish things important to her 10. Hold her tight as much as you can 11. Imagine your life without her, if it makes you hurt, sad, or angry then don't take her for granted. 12. Just love her the best you can 13. Know her middle name and birthday, its important 14. Keep those stinky bad boys away 15. Listen to her... Fine we get you know things but once a week open your mind and just listen, no judgement 16. Lick her, let her show you where and tell you how nipples, neck, clit anywhere... 17. Love her hard, she'll do the same for you 18. Let her undress you 19. Massage her back when she cries 20. Maintain control even when she's being so bratty or disrespectful, put her in her place and carry on with the day 21. NEVER put her down, regardless of how hurt you are... She'll remember it forever like really FOREVER 22. Offer advice about anything she needs help with 23. Outline your expectations, doesn't have to be on paper but make it clear, she's less likely to let you down 24. Push her limits like only you can 25. Power is precious handle it as such 26. Protect her... From herself, negativity, bad influences, or bumble bees 27. Prepare her, if a time comes for her to do something specific and important don't just spring it on. Do little things to get her ready even if you haven't told her 28. Snuggle her 29. Sit her on your lap and tell her about your day. Then let her have a turn 30. Sing to her, even if you're horrible at it, likely it will remind her of how special she is to you 31. Steer away from comparing her... She's you're unique and special girl, never make her question that 32. Spoil her - letters, juice, stuffies, and most of all kisses, hugs, and cock :-) 33. Spank her... You pick the purpose reward, sadism, or punishment soft or hard but just spank her. Often :-) 34. Squeeze her sexy tits or suck them or spank them or torture them. Just remember she has them and they need attention 35. Shower with her or bathe, its so nice 36. Swallow every compliment, she means it 37.. Show her love in her love language, not yours if she sees love as affection but you see love as gifts give that girl affection and call that your gift 38. Stand tall even if you aren't, head held high and walking strong 39. Try new things whenever you get the chance 40. Take her places she likes - your backyard via skype or build a bear or the zoo she'll always remember 41. Take your time - when being frisky do as you wish but lets not rip anything unless its your fetish 42. Trust her... what girl wants to hurt her daddy or let him down 43. Tuck her in, I don't care if you do really live in antartica call that girl at her bedtime not yours and tell her night night and make sure she's in bed. It'll help her rest better 44. Taste her food to make sure its yummy 45. Under her skirt is one of your most precious domains make sure she knows it and keep it happy 46. Visualise new positions then try them 47. Voice your displeasure in a loving firm way 48. Wake her gently with a call or a kiss 49. Wipe her tears, especially if you caused them 50. Watch as she grows and all your effort pays off oops I forgot R.. Realise although you're not perfect you likely are a superhero to her

3/6/14 Returned from a wonderful holiday.... Met a most handsome and a deviant DOM whilst in Singapore. He made me smile in more ways than one; as they say your destiny is written for you and the person you are seeking is out there:-) Its early days but he talks the talk and walks the walk... We are meeting at the weekend around his place... Can not wait to see his dungeon in real life, had a preview of the well equipped room via some photos he shared. I would like thank gentlemen who showed an interest and messages sent to me 😘😘 There was one gent on the site who said I didn't have the right ethics to be a sub... He knows who he is!! How wrong he was after just two messages to me. I am his loss and the man from Knightsbridge gain. Gentleman please don't take us ladies to bow at your feet the moment you send a couple of messages. It just don't work; as most of you say in your profiles that offering ourselves to you as a submissive is a gift yet as soon as a potential sub refutes your advances you seem to go on the attack to defend your space. My friend / DOM told me, "Dominant person is one who gets to understand his partner and holds her as an equal in the public and she is his possession behind the closed door with agreed pramaters for both to share and enjoy..... However a domineering person is not Dominate but a bully who does not care about his partner but to get his way all the time" how true these few words are. Good luck to you all. Happy to be friends and possibly play with single females and couples only. No singleton DOM need to keep sending invites as they will not be answered, as a sign of respect to the one I am ready to submit and have his collar placed around my slender neck.

18/5/14 Less then 24 hours before getting in the plane to fly out in my holidays to beautiful Singapore.... Wish I was not travelling alone:( Will respond to mail upon my return.

14/5/2014 Gents, I just don't understand the logic in you adding me to your admire list. It would make sense if you dropped a note first to ascertain if this lady was interested or not... Or are you frightened of rejection!!! Come on guys we have enough to deal with without this uncouth behaviour. The other question is why do a minority of gents on here think with their middle leg and not the brain to understand what we ladies are seeking before firing off a message - "let's talk and see if we are made for each other" I think all the lovely ladies on here have profiles which clearly states what they seek. So why then be a true Dominant and drop a note which is both meaningful and shows you have read the profile. Furthermore, be honest with yourself and a prospective sub in terms of who you are without stating a profession you are not in ( goggle is a wonderful thing). When asked about any lucky lady you are speaking to or seeing be a man and tell her then its the lady's choice to continue or not - So do give an honest answer without beating around the bush. How long will you keep this up as the truth does come out, we ladies do talk to one another - be warned she will find out.

Update 13 May 2014 Only been on the site less then 24 hours and I am inundated with emails. Have responsed to most. Sorry guys if I have missed some of you charming men but you did not inspire me with one liners to respond. Please note I am no pushover and start calling you sir/ master from the first message. Furthermore only looking for men in the age range 48- 60. It is nice to hear from younger but not my cup of tea.