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I consider myself extremely open-minded sexually, physically and spiritually. I hate labels and the best way to describe me is I feel bi-gendered. I'm a bisexual transgender/crossdresser (who spends the majority of my vanilla life as a male and have no intentions of starting hormones or going fulltime). Crossdressing is a very spiritual for me, as is BDSM, as it goes beyond the clothes or fetish...I consider myself spiritually in touch, educated, and enlightened/open minded with my feminine side, and when it comes to loving people and seeing them for who they are, I don't judge them from their outer appearance and what they wear (although I enjoy fashion and self-expression of all kinds), if they are bi, straight, female, male, dominant, sub, but rather, I see everyone as a person and their internal value is what's most important to me.
I truly feel a duality and try to balance both sides of my life, male and female, vanilla and kinky. I go out in public and am passable to a point, but am very grounded and know who I am and what my limits are, and am experienced enough with my outlooks on the TG/BDSM lifestyles. I would hope whoever I find is INTO me as a whole, and doesn't care about what gender I express myself in or how I present myself, but sees and loves me for all of who I am.
Good communication and trust between people are turn ons. Above all else, I really like people who are open minded and have a zest for life. I'm hoping to meet a FEMALE slave, submissive, or dominant (NO MALES/Masters, SORRY) who accepts both sides of me, and embraces my vanilla and fetish sides, feminine and masculine qualities.
I don't want someone who just wants me to make decisions for them or seeks slavery because it's their way "out" of the rat race or taking care of their own responsibilities. Rather, I want someone who can grow with me on a spiritual, intellectual, and physical journey with trust, loyalty, submission under my guidance. I consider myself ambitious with realistic goals, a stable career, and healthy vanilla interests outside of the lifestyle. I love being presentable, elegant, silly, fun, adventurous, and most importantly, kind-hearted, moral, and I love seeing loving deeds done for and by good people.
I prefer a relationship but am open and want to consider an eventual polyamorous household under the right conditions.
Although I've always identified as a switch and served as a slave before, my ideal situation would be an eventual Dom/Domme situation where I am with a dominant female who enjoys owning a slave together with me (and open to having a family), but doesn't mind me submitting for play on occasion as well.
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