I think I have the answer... most people are scamming, ghosting themselves so they think it is normal to play with emotions and act like a psychopath. People state things in their profile but don't even write back. 

Lots changed since CollarMe, the mentality people, the values, egoism and rudenes. Walls up high and everybody is a scammer, wants your money ... where is the trust? Fear based on experiences?   Don't waste your time looking back, you're not going that way