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	4/21/24 at 3:26 PM:

We interrupt this broadcast for a special announcement....
I am not here to help a wannabe Dom or sub/slave get his rocks off.

If you are listed as a male Dom or sub/slave on here and have no clue what either is, then how do you know that is what you are? If you have a kink listed in one of the areas of interest then have a clue what it is. If your not willing to say hey I am new and don't know alot or if you're actually not into bdsm or other kinks then don’t send me a message. If you are willing to sign up on this site then you can take the time to do some basic research. Its not like its hard to find websites. And yes I do not mind giving a person a few websites to help just be honest.

Or of course you have the guy who thinks because it is his kink that it has to be yours if he contacts you. Or asks a question and ignores your answer and believes that you are going to do as he says. Well those males need to buy a clue and realize that I am not going to drop to my knees and kiss your ass since, you may be a Dom but you are NOT my Dom and i may be a bitch but i am NOT your bitch.

Ok now back to our regularly scheduled program.....


Delcosangel

	4/21/24 at 3:21 PM:


	Thank you everyone for all your kind messages. I'm gradually reading them and will then start replying. Those of you who are getting abusive because I don't reply immediately please stop.


Oldlady

	4/21/24 at 2:59 PM:


	As per below 😂 really shouldn't be left home alone!! Another day, another mmmmm House to myself for the first time in months.. after dozen orgasms I need to change my sheets, calm my pussy and have cold shower!!! omg love it 💕


DarkAngel71

	4/21/24 at 2:40 PM:

It's time for master to go back to LA! :(. This has been the second time period that master has been with us. This time, some significant mile stones had been achieved. Master punished us for the first time for our transgression. He fucked my wife bare back (she's been on pills). I swallowed and cleaned up wife and master for their body fluids. I washed master and wife in shower . Wife got into some great conversation with some fellow masters upon the insistence of master.

overall, it has been another wild ride. Than you again master!


cuckold05926

	4/21/24 at 1:52 PM:

Saturday Munch was a Success!

So usually my PVSC (Pomona Valley Social Club) Munch is held on Tuesdays, but since it was 420, and one of my favorite food trucks was going to be at one of the best local breweries, i thought why not? So i created a "Last Minute 420 Brewery And Brisket Munch" thinking, what's the worst that could happen?

The Munch went really well. Especially since i put it up so last minute! Around 20 people came. i was a little nervous about some of the people that were on the RSVP list (a Saturday event seemed to be attracting a very different crowd) but as it turned out, most of the people who came i know and consider as friends. And the few new people that came by were great additions and so nice to meet them all. (It was the first time at a Munch for a few of them!)

Seeing the amount of people that came by on such short notice, plus getting feedback from some Munch goers that i hadn't met or that don't make it out to the Tuesday Munch too often really cemented the fack that there IS a need for Munches and Socials in this area on the weekends! i will definitely be organizing more of them over the coming months.

		pomonagirl

	4/21/24 at 9:02 AM:


	I shouldn't have to say this but I will just to put it in plain english.... I WILL NOT SEND YOU MONEY, GIFT CARDS, TRIBUTES, or ANYTHING else.

		StephanieRose12

	4/21/24 at 7:24 AM:


	If you are into any acts that involve a living being that can not legally, intellectually or morally consent, MOVE THE HELL ON. I am NOT interested.


Delcosangel

	4/21/24 at 7:13 AM:

a slave not a GF or a wife Not a friend but a true slave?

If you understand you need you to be slapped, hair pulled, choked, dragged around by my hair, pushed, hit, verbally degraded as well as embarrassed and humiliated

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you need to feel a hand grabbing your hair and pulling you down to the floor so you can start sucking from my big toe then working your way up and know you are NOT in control and that is your FREEDOM


despicable68

	4/21/24 at 6:47 AM:

For Male subs who don't understand that not all women are Tops/Dommes/Mistress etc
What part is not clear for some of the male subs that frequent cm? A profile says the female is a slave or a sub.... why would you send her a message calling her Mistress or Ma'am? to me this is a total sign of disrespect since i am a slave not a Domme or Top or Mistress or a female looking to have any control over a male. If you bother sending me a message then use the brain on top of your neck and read the damn profile. As long as you are a male sub, the only thing that can be offered to you is a possible friendship. My Master is not interested in men in any sexual or kink related way and I have no interest in controlling a male. so if that is a problem then don't bother sending me a message.

Now after reading this, you wish to send me a message.... please use common courtesy and respect since we are equals as slaves/subs.

Also you are more likely to get a response from me if you type something as simple as "Hello, saw your profile and it caught my interest. I am into (fill in blank) as well. Would you care to chat? instead of "want to spank me" or sending me a picture of your dick. I'm 37, I think by this time I know what one looks like and unless we are going to actually have a session (which since you are a male sub is not going to happen) i have NO interest in seeing your dick and sorry to burst your bubble am not stupid and am aware that some of you send it to get ridiculed to get yourself off well sorry but you are SOL.


Delcosangel

	4/21/24 at 5:18 AM:

What do treasure hunter's and picture collectors share in common with me, they will find no booty here.

For the few that read, you give a lot a way when you take an otherwise great start or conversation and tilt it towards a thrill a search engine could satisfy you better in. I've lived some of my dreams so if you aren't serious enough to to show why you can utilize me as a slave or doll I will move on to something else.

Some of you need to remember you're a stranger to me if you want mor e at least prove why instead of being entitled and demanding with little to gain for it, somethin something you can catch a fly easier with honey.

		ShinyGoonDoll

	4/21/24 at 4:18 AM:

Her previous Dom turned up at our house late one night with two of his mates He was saying things like where is your slut wife? Ive brought a couple of cocks for her
They had all been drinking and came straight from the pub
I tried to explain that it was late and she had gone to bed
He went straight upstairs saying he was going to wake her
I found out the next day when she told me that she was awakened when he pulled the bed covers completely off the bed She sleeps nude He made her suck his cock before dragging her out of bed by her hair She tried to put her house coat on but he wouldnt let her
He dragged her downstairs and into the front room naked in front of his friends This is Teds slut wife Holding her in front of them he pulled on her hair until she said yes, She loves big cocks dont you? again he pulled on her hair until she said yes
This went on for some time making her crawl on the floor barking and panting like a dog He made her Grunt like a pig and all three were laughing and making jokes about her I was told to go and fetch her whip and cat of nine tails he knew we had because he had used them on her before All three took turns whipping her leaving marks all over her He held her arms behind her back while the other two took turns whipping her tits She was crying her eyes out at this point They used beer bottles to masturbate her and even had her licking their shoes.

They ended up fucking her in all holes They totally abused her as I could do nothing but watch
After they left we went to bed and I gently made love to her She admitted to me that she loved every moment of her ordeal Her cunt was absolutely saturated so I knew she was telling the truth
She once said to me that it is not about the sex, she can walk into any bar and get a man for sex For her the sex is nice but it is all about the pain and humiliation She can get a man to tell her how beautiful she is but again that is not what she wants deep down

		Cucklife4me2

	4/21/24 at 4:09 AM:

We are a naturally submissive married couple who has enjoyed BDSM for many years after being introduced to it by my wife's ex boyfriend. She was my girlfriend in those days.

My wife and I enjoy humiliation and I find a lot of humiliation in watching other men with my wife.

It all started many years ago just before we got married. Her ex boyfriend would visit us and have sex with her while I watched.

That was the first time I ejaculated without masturbating.

My wife and I made love together for hours afterwards. She told me how much she had enjoyed it and I knew it was something I enjoyed too so we have played similar games since although nothing as been as incredible as that first night.

		Cucklife4me2

	4/21/24 at 2:00 AM:


	A mistake in the verification stting caused the loss of the huge text rhat i ve just wrote. Fuckoff

		ddclop

	4/21/24 at 12:13 AM:


	I always wonder how people are in real life when I message them or get messaged. There are lots of nice people that give a decent answer. But some act so weird when asked something simple and decent. Is this who they are or is it the safety and anonymity of the web. I guess they filter themselves out in the end. A pity. It is already hard enough to find bdsm partners and friends.

		ForcefulDutch

	4/20/24 at 11:46 PM:


	Intelligence is shown, not mentioned.

		ForcefulDutch

	4/20/24 at 11:45 PM:


	It is interesting slaves call themselves useless and want to be owned. Why would someone serious want to own something useless. You are a slave, be useful. Stop with that romantic fantasy bs.

		ForcefulDutch

	4/20/24 at 9:22 PM:


	If you're wondering why you've never received a response from me: Telling me I'm sexy is meaningless. I know I'm sexy. You're boring. I thought we were here to find connections and potential partners, not state the obvious.

		MissMaraRay

	4/20/24 at 9:13 PM:


	Yes, I do have another, older, account on here. This is something I wrote in my Journal over there and still stand by BEFORE YOU ASK WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR: Hopefully at bare minimum I can find someone to chill with and take that friendship and trust beyond what the public sees and into some special erotic level in the bedroom


NerdyDomme4Fun

	4/20/24 at 6:58 PM:

New to this. I think my fantasy is a larger bite than I know how to take, or even start taking. That's a pretty high level of trust you need to be firmly bound and deprived of your senses, and then to be left to someone's whim on the trust that you'll get your climax, too. Though, that's not the only place that trust is required in the scenario. It's a lot to begin with, and I don't quite know how to do it.

I'd love to know if someone has a f-ing machine. That's been a fantasy of mine. Unrelenting mechanical thrust while incapable of escape. Obediance being the way though.


vibrantism

	4/20/24 at 4:16 PM:


	Seeking FLR with a bright, imaginative, mature, Dominant Woman who enjoys strictly controlling her submissive, and derives pleasure from creatively using restraints and discipline to effectuate his obedience and loss of agency.

		SoCalObedientMan

	4/20/24 at 4:01 PM:


	When you're playing with me, you're playing with fire.

		Savior402

	4/20/24 at 1:15 PM:


	Is what you seek EVEN possibl by normal people?? Really? It seems like people look people look for the impossible!! For God's sake people? We live on this planet called Earth! We might want something different, but without planning? It ain't going to happen.

		nytekat

	4/20/24 at 9:01 AM:


	Kneel for me, slave, raise your eyes in supplication, submission in every aspect. I own your heart and spirit, your flesh and your mind. It is for you to please me you will know, in your heart that I am truly your Lordandmaster


IronTarn

	4/20/24 at 8:20 AM:

This is a good example of why I need more girls. All of my cows are now suffering from vaginal dermal abrasions, in other words, I have used them so often and so hard, their pussies are sore and rubbed raw. I like the pain it puts them in, but I don't want to damage them past the point where I can't get any more use out of them. So I need to add another girl so I can put her in rotation and let the others heal up a little between the times I use them.


Twolf28

	4/20/24 at 8:11 AM:


	Update of what I am seeking a live in slave one who is able to follow directions not have an agenda of their own able to plant and maintain raised bed gardens do some lawncare know which end of a hammer to use what I would like and what I find is 2 perfectly different things, handyman would be nice. but not a deal breaker as i can hire a handyman locally.

		NoBSBBWDomm68

	4/20/24 at 7:44 AM:


	I'm straight and not attracted to men but I really want to be chained and gang raped.


Prisoner1984

	4/20/24 at 6:40 AM:


	Yay i get to play.... hubby is letting me find a female playmate. This will be for me mainly but if thy want him to join in the fun thats fine too hehe. Anyone intrested? Lests chat and see if we can help eachother out :)

		LilCabbit

	4/20/24 at 5:54 AM:


	Sometimes I get a kick out of profiles......the ones demanding pics that have none. The people who are grotesquely overweight but demand you be height & weight proportionate.......or the whole total obedience thing without doing anything to earn it.

		WickedScot55

	4/20/24 at 5:40 AM:

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		ddclop

	4/20/24 at 5:10 AM:

When Peter came to visit us. Peter loooked older in real life than he did in his profile picture. He was extremely well dressed and well spoken. He seemed mild mannered and not the typical Dom my wife normally goes for. After what seemed like hours of chit chat and a few glasses of red wine he finally got on to why he was actually here. That was to inspect Katie my wife and to find out how obiediant we were.

The conversation eventually got around to Katies underclothes. He started asking her questions about her bra and knickers. What colour they were, what material they were, where she bought them, how much she pays for them, how often she wears them. The questions were relentless. Then he asks if he could see her in just her bra and panties. He looked at me "You don't mind that do you Ted"? "er No" I replied. "Ok Kate I want you to stand up and strip down to your bra and panties for me" "Good girl" he said as she stood up and started undressing. She looked lovely standing there in just her undies. "Mmm" he muttered "A matching set, just what I like to see" He looks again at me. "Your wife looks very sexy Ted, does it bother you" he asks. "Does what bother me? that she looks sexy" I ask. "No Ted, does it bother you to see your wife take her clothes off so easily for another man"? "haha Oh no" I nervously laugh trying to make light of it, "I'm used to it now" I replied. "Does she make habit of it then Ted" he asks. "Well she is an exhibitionist" I reply.

"Ok Ted for this next part I'm going to require you to leave the room " "Oh no, Im comfortable now, I wont be a problem" I assure him. "No Ted as part of your obiediance test I must insist that you leave the room, go and sit in the kitchen and have a beer" he tells me. I want to interview your lovely wife in private, be a good boy and wait in the kitchen until I call you back in and don't worry I am not going to have sex with her, I will instruct her to get fully dressed shortly, I simply want to test her obiediance and limits, yours too Ted so be a good boy and wait in the kitchen until I call you back"

"Well if you insist" I mumble as I get up to leave.

Of course I don't go to the kitchen as told. I stand outside the front room door listening to what is being said.

I hear him telling her to remove her bra. the silence tell me she is complying. "Thats it my dear, just drop it there" I hear him say. "You have beautiful breasts Katie. stand closer so I can feel them, thats it" I hear him say. He asks her if her nipples are sensitive and by the sound of her shreek I'm guessing he is squeezing her nipples while fondelling her breasts.I can just about hear a few Mmm's and Arrr's and It sounds like he is playing with her tits for some while. "There lovely" I hear him say.

"Ok Katie, now the panties, Just lower them down a little. Mmm I love a fully shaved pussy, Wow that is very smooth Kate, Did Ted shave that for you"? I hear him ask. "Yes he did" I hear her say in a soft shy voice. Did he do that for ny benefit Kate" he knew I was coming to inspect you today. "Lower your panties a little more for me. Thats hit down to your knees. Part your legs a little more, Mmm thats it. That's lovely. Mmm your so wet Kate. Do you like this"? I hear him ask her. She replies faintly "Yes Sir I do"

He tells her to let her panties drop to her ankles. "Mmm just stand there like that for me" I hear him tell her. "You are so horny" he says. "I must get a couple of pictures" it goes quite and I'm guessing he is getting his phone out and photographing her.

I have been standing outside listening and wanking myself. I didn't want to cum as I wanted to fuck her after he had gone but I couldn't help cumming at the thought of what was happening.

I heard him telling her to kneel down and unzip him. She was obviously complying. "Thats it put it in your mouth, Ohhh thats lovely" I can hear him moaning as she sucks him off. After a while I hear him telling her not to swallow. "Hold it in your mouth" he tells her. from his groans it is obvious that he has cum in her mouth."Open your mouth let me see" he tells her. "Good girl" He tells her to gargle before allowing her to swallow. He again tells her shes a good girl and she knows how to suck a cock.

"I bet you've had a lot of practice" he jokes. Just clean me up a little" Mmm thats very good" he tells her.

I hear him say "Ok my dear you can get fully dressed now

and go tell Ted I said he can come back in"

"Thank you Sir" I hear her say in that soft voice of hers.

		Cucklife4me2

	4/20/24 at 5:09 AM:

Yesterday morning my wife was holding my balls during sex. The idea of torturing my balls was so arousing that I couldnt last long but she still enjoyed it. She probably could not have the same type of orgasm than when it lasts longer and she can finish herself riding me while she commands me to hold her breast with both hands and lick her nipples.

Maybe that lead her to wanting more yesterday noght but i was gone at a bar with a friend and chattung with girls. She got angry but who cares as long as i am not disciplined i cant help not staying wild. Honey please keep me home <3.

Today i ve just shaved pubian and ass hair to provide a clean playground to my spouse that i love from the bottom of my heart. I love telling her that i love her when she tortures me.

		ddclop

	4/20/24 at 12:51 AM:

It looks like any changes to a profile are still problematic. Because it's risky to change my profile, I'll announce that I turned 50 recently.

The housing crisis that was brewing finally came. I moved 3 times from October to December. I whittled down my stuff, and I have no emotional, legal, or financial attachment to where I'm living now. I can move easily. Right now, I'm still close to Cumming, Georgia. (Yes, that's really the name.)

My top / potential Dom versus slave seesaw keeps teetering. On one hand, I am still interested in being a live-in slave. On the other, I have great memories of my several months as a top, which was years ago.

I am NOT expecting to switch. I think it may be doable, but most women don't think it's doable, so that's fine. I can commit to one or the other.

If I find a woman to submit to, I expect to become a totally obedient slave. I am open to the idea that the slavery will eventually become permanent.

I understand it is not the place of the slave to make demands. With that said, I can't envision myself as a slave without worshiping HER feet. I also envision bondage, pain, and cages, but I'm not sure that is essential.

On the other hand, if SHE wants to give pain, I hope to learn to take whatever she gives. I hope she'll start slowly.

On the top side, I am open to that, too. As for being a Dom versus a top, I am pretty sure I could first play the Dom role and then become the role. We'd have to discuss. There is a question whether I'm in a place in life to project Dominance, but that obviously depends on the potential sub.

As for history, years ago my woman liked being called slave girl, even though BDSM was only in the bedroom. I'll use the term slave or sub for simplicity's sake.

Slave girl got lots of excellent foot massages, but she also got the opposite. After some research and starting very slowly and carefully, I found that I could safely whip the soles of her feet with the leather part of a light belt. She said it was a 10 out of 10 on the medical pain scale--the worst pain she'd ever felt. But she never hesitated to submit to a whipping. Even after experience, she enjoyed the idea of the whipping. I tied her in a gentle hogtie during the whipping.

The following numbers are approximations. I whipped her 15 times over 6 months. This was years ago. She was hogtied for an hour, but the whipping was 15 - 20 minutes spread over the hour. 70 to 140 strokes.

What happened next is certainly relevant to a potential sub, but the whole story is too long for one entry. She was more or less a vanilla girlfriend for a while, and we're still in touch. I learned a number of lessons. If I have the privilege of inflicting foot torture again, I am nearly certain I can keep that institution stable indefinitely.

After the whippings went slightly off the rails, I considered the situation from the slave's point of view. Neither of us understood exactly what went wrong, so I was trying to figure it out. That's when I realized I could see myself as a slave. I could see myself as a true slave, not just a bottom.

With that said, I have not tried slavery. I've had discussions with a number of Dommes, and some have gone a way's down the path, but getting together never quite worked out for various reasons.

For the most part, I've been contacting Dommes, but I've started contacting subs lately. I can use pen (keyboard) pals or phone pals or friends, so we don't have to agree on BDSM stuff.


yinyang73

	4/19/24 at 6:43 PM:


	Could have you used you today for sure... or any and every day... why me?


TPEdealMADE

	4/19/24 at 5:30 PM:


	when a MAN uses me for his pleasure i slip into sub space. at that moment i am a total slave to his will and desires


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