Not really sure if this will be a success or not but here goes.
Helloo- 31 year old sub living in South Wales. Was on here once upon a time and then it got a bit... odd and closed but then didn't close and all that jazz. But now I'm back again and keen to chat with likeminded people and see what happens. ☺️
Where does my name come from?
Well I gave up drinking 2 years ago and have just started to consider myself someone who is sober- no I didn't have a drink problem. The lighthouse bit just comes from my love of the coast. Nothing to do with phallus objects, just an innocent lighthouse.
What am I into?
Hard to really put into words a full and extensive list of the things that I'm into. A lot of things end up coming up in conversation a lot of the time but I'll give you the fundamentals.
I'm most definitely a sub. I admire the subs out there for trying to get me to dominate you but that wouldn't be my idea of a good time so no point in even trying to humour that idea. I do have little tendancies though I'm definitely not an age player. I've been told in the past that I can be bratty. It's not something that I'm purposely putting out there, but particularly in early stages of a dynamic, I do push and challenge because I'm testing the waters and I want to make sure that a Dom will do what they say they're gonna do when things come up.
I have a very vibrant, vanilla personal life that I have no interests in giving up or compromising on. I am however looking for a dynamic that complements that and someone that we can grow and develop in our seperate roles together. This whole thing is more than just being told what to do. It's an exchange of control and all involved should be getting enjoyment from it. So if you send me a message instantly insisting that I respect you just because you're a dom, then I probably will not reply.
If however you're of a similar age to me and what you've read so far has you intrigued enough to send a message then let's chat. I won't be moving the conversation to anywhere else instantly either- I know the interface of this site can be a bit annoying but safety first.
Anyway, looking forward to chatting to you soon.
xxx
When did it become okay to think that people having a life off this site was unacceptable? Haha.
