u never know when something will come along and toss a wrench, spanner, shoe or whatever into the machine that is your life.. Like a few years ago i had melanoma in situ. Caught early by great VA PA/Dermatologist . She 'fixed' it, leaving only a scar where it had been. Then April of '24, my blood labs start going south, until finally, a Dr says, 'Hmmmmm, maybe you need oncology.' In December. And it is lymphoma this time. Treatable, not curable.  Now that is a wrench in the machine But the real point is this: Doctors all acted like they were all that and a bag of chips. Especially the oncology types.  But when all was said and done i realized for all their arrogance and genius, they could not come close to replicating what nature, God or whatever power you like to cherish, has created in making human beings. It is like the difference between a perfect meal served in a great restaurant where you feel like you are home , and the same food pulled out of the dumpster behind the restaurant. No comparision.  So enjoy every day of that perfection that is you, as well as your mind and soul. Because it all can change in a moment... Just a thought.   

Been showing daughter how to drive...how did she get to be 19...and she drives so well.   a,regular Michelle Mautone or Donna Mae Mimms.. Much better driver than she realizes... We have been walking the beaches, going out for tea..She likes chai tea.. She is grown. Still i see her as young   but know she is about to find her way in life.. Cannot help but worry about her and her future...but she is veey smart, like her mom. i imagine all will be well in her life  

Somehow am listed as Domimant here....am submissive all the way.....no idea how that was mixed up.... Now must enter the CS black hole of corrections..   Pray for me

i split time berween Chicago,  Clearwater FL and North Cal all because that is whet the family is.. so can travel and relocate... just saying this because am limited in locations here.. 

If you are a findom,  please say it up front...will save us both a lot of time