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SirNZ

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	NortynEvil



	Auckland and Hamilton You must be confident enough to tell me when you have had enough yet submissive enough to respect my control. You need not be experienced in bondage or have a high pain threshold, But must be willing to try anything safe, Looking to explore new ideas and try new things, I believe that limits should be respected but also pushed now and then. You will want to be with a man who truly wants to own and control you. I seek someone who dose not need to be controlled But wishes to give control Desires to pleased me or given some sort of amusement by submission and wear my collar with pride. I seek a life time or long term relationship but I will consider play with the right person. I have been submissive in the past and have enjoyed this experience very much but wish to return to my Dominant side. I'm told the best subs make the best Doms. Read my journal entry on this subject if you want to know more just ask. I am confident in who I am and do not agree with the stereo typical rules as to what a D/S relationship is. I love intelligence and I like people to read my full profile before contacting me So if you have read my profile you will know I have a hidden message. If noticed the Hidden message in this profile then tell me when you message me what it says. Contact me if you have a genuine Desire to Submit. No Time wasters, I will consider Casual play or L.T.R Experienced or Beginner. I do have pictures but I will only send them to people after contact is made as it could effect my Business, If you wish to see what I look like just ask. I love to eat pussy especially when my sub/slave is naked and bound and I love to wake my sub/slave up in the morning by eating her pussy and listening to her moan as she wakes " For those who are I want subs " IE - I want sex, I want to be bound, I want to be collared. Here is what I want as the Dom, I want you to learn what submission is you are welcome to tell me what you enjoy and what turns you on or gives you pleasure in fact I always ask these things on fist meeting but submission is about giving up control not what you want.., " Sir NZ.

I have always been Dominant and have always been in control in my relationships in the past.

But I submitted as I wanted to give up control and let someone else take control for a change.

I also enjoyed the feeling of being bound and helpless and used for another persons pleasure rather then my own selfish needs.

It taught me a lot about what it is a women wants and how to please her rather then the usual male ideals of what men think a women wants or turns her on.

It also taught me to appreciate submission and why a person submits what draws them to want to submit and how to take that gift of submission and use it to achieve what we both seek so we can both get what we want and pleases us both.

I admit I still like it when a women makes the moves from time to time and says what she wants there is noting wrong with a sub wanting something and taking it within reason

Both the Dom and the sub have wants and needs and get turned on by someone showing they desire you and are willing to speak up and say what it is they desire or making the moves to get it, we all like to feel desired and wanted.

And I do believe that having submitted in the past as well as having Dominated helps me to please the women I am with whether she be Dom or Sub,

As much as people will tell you the two rolls are completely different when you have a better understanding of what each roll is then you realize that they are both very similar.

My Profile here stats switch and it also says I have been sub in the past.

Some may call me a kinkster or fetishist but I feel comfortable in both rolls depending on the person I am with.