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My friends call me MK because there are a million and one Mikes' in our community. Addressing me as MK, Sir MK or MK sir, is great. (depending on what you deem the appropriate etiquette.)
I live this life 24 hours a day 7 days a week. It is who I am. It is at the core of my being. My friends and my chosen family from the BDSM kink and the Leather community mean the world to me. They have given so much to me and my family, that I can only hope to return a portion of that back to them. I hope to always honor them and be worthy of their love and friendship.
To me D/S and M/s are more than just roles or parts to play in a scene. There is a strong emotional and spiritual connection between the people involved. Most of that is hard to describe and is very individual. The fact that there is no one right way to be in that relationship, makes it a difficult thing to put in writing what that looks like or who that would be with. For me to take on being someone's Dom or Master means I am willing to have their life in my hands. There has to be a foundation of the ultimate trust and love. D/s and M/s do not even have to have BDSM play as part of it.
Don't get me wrong, I am also very much into the play aspects of this life. I love so many aspects of the play that I will only list a few here. Flogging, spanking, paddles, electric, rope, needles, and I could go one but then we do need things to talk about, don’t we?
I do not see my self as a Master, at least not a Master in the communities eyes. I am a Master in my current relationship (yes I am Poly ) and have been in previous ones. In July I did compete for and currently represent The Ohio Leather Alliance as The Ohio Valley Regional Master 2009.
I am always looking for others to talk to and learn from. Some people I will travel this path with, some I won't.
Love and Honor
MK |
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I was talking to a friend today and she told me a rumor she had heard going around the younger and or uncollored girls in the community. "If you want to play contact MK."
I am thinking she took as a bad thing at first. Then I told the friend is that, "I Love to play with new people. I love giving them a good a good experience to go from." I like taking care of them and even sometimes pushing their limits just a little. I love seeing the smile on their faces and the many thank you hugs. I have played with women and men all over the State now doing demo's as a title holder. I still appreciate it when each has a good time. I take care of each person for that short period of time. It is my standard that each person that I play with, I accept their life in my hands. Each life is precious and each deserving respect and honor. No matter what their sex, orientation, role, color, or anything else.
I have heard many stories, like meeting some guy on an ego trip, or having a bad experience, or meeting up with some one who just wants to get in to their pants, those are even tame things when you consider, that some one not knowing what they are doing can really hurt you. I know that can happen with experienced players too as sometimes stuff happens.
So if that rumor is try, awesome.
MK |
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I asked some people for some input the other day. Something that someone said was "to make sure that you have or are looking for the right slave/sub."
I thought about it for a little bit and well in my experience I can't say that I could identify the right slave or sub based on profiles or even just conversation. I have a lot of interests, skills, and kinks. I love to flog and use rope, but I also love to skin drum and do wax, and needles, and electric. Ok you get the idea. So interests alone are also of little use. How about energy? Well with some people I really enjoy their playful energy and can play with them all night long and it would be fun but not have a real connection. There are others where I feel a connection and an energy but then there is something off with the timing.
I talk to a lot of people as a leader and representative in the community. And yes I am a big flirt. I am poly so the idea of the right one? Well that is hard for me to imagine. Though I know the "one" can happen, because I experienced it once.
So all I know right now is that with out actually spending time with someone and really getting to know them, I have no idea if they are a good fit for me or not. Granted there are some people I where I am clear they are not. Otherwise, I guess I spend time getting to know people and will see where my next adventure lands me.
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Beginning to think that there are no submissive women just dominisives on submissive clothing. |
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Went to an Excellent party over the weekend. I am actually looking forward to Christmas now. I hope every one had a great weekend and has a awesome week.
MK |
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