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Before I go any further I can be very blunt, and although I do not wear my sexuality on my sleeve I am always open to questions and discussion. The only caveat is that I reserve the right to not answer any particular question or forgo a topic of discussion and return the same respect. I believe that open honesty is a cornerstone of any lifestyle and making sure everyone is on the same page and knows exactly what is expected is paramount.

I have been in the lifestyle officially you could call it for almost 17 years in one capacity or incarnation. Initially I stumbled into a club and already having interest in the lifestyle was hooked after the first “official” outing. I do not consider tying up or playfully spanking your girlfriend is enough to label anyone as a lifestyler. I joined the club and was trained as Master in what I would call an “old school” style. Not old school “beater” or “leather” but when protocol mattered and a slave or submissive was more than just a notch on your flogger and not a doormat. I was apprenticed for about a year on and off tasting both sides attending events from simple munches to black tie affairs. I eventually earned my place and I divided my time between performing, instructing, and interviewing new members. Over the years I have continued to perform, attend, and on occasion counseled individuals on and off. I returned to it more or less in the past few years saddened in what I have found. I am what you might call a sensualist Dominate who enjoys the act of submission more than the sexual natures of the act. This is not to say that it is not an extremely satisfying by product which I enjoy very much but that is not what the lifestyle is really all about. I have found that much of the protocol, concerns over safety, and such basic respect are all but forgotten memories. What I have found are individuals seeking and believing that abuse is love, Owner’s vying for the largest stable to keep themselves satisfied and use this “number” as a definition of their “prowess and experience”, and that anyone who knows anything about what I consider the “true lifestyle” is labeled a predator or is putting on “airs” to make themselves seem more important. It has been very frustrating and disappointing.

My interests are not based on age, body type, orientation, or level of experience, etc. First the things I am not into are the typical no kids, no extreme pain to the point of injury, no unsanitary play, and no scene-ing while under the influence [drunk sex is one thing but using a flogger or other like instruments while under the influence in my opinion is unacceptable and reckless]. I am clean and demand the same from any play partners even if there is going to be little to no physical contact. Mistakes do happen. As mentioned above I prefer the limited use of recreational legal stimulants during play anything else I prefer not to be present and discourage the use of before or during play, which may lead to canceling or ending a session, scene, or play. What I am into is feedback. I enjoy the symbiotic relationship between individuals while scene-ing, playing, and during sex. It is this symbiotic relationship of giving the other what they need and feeding off their enjoyment is what I truly “get off” on. I enjoy most of D/s and BDSM play including service [meaning such things as serving dinner, tasks, etc], bondage, flogging, spanking, various control fantasies such as role-playing in scene, orgasm control and on command, obedience training, etc. Out of the sphere of D/s or BDSM I enjoy role-playing various scenarios, sharing fantasies during masturbation and sex, varied positions, watching and being watched, and blending sex and D/s/BDSM during play.

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TheEbonyMuse
 
 Age: 37
  Louisiana