Part 1

Hello and thanks for taking the moment to learn more of me.  I'll be fleshing out this introduction more in the near future, but for now my hope is this will suffice for introduction purposes.... :)  BTW, if you you can identify the series related to my handle you get a bonus :)

 

So, why am I here, succinctly, for friendship, kinship, and pleasure and perhaps more should the right chemistry be real.  Does that mean I am player, by all means no.  I've been involved with kink interests for over 30 years.  I am known in many parts of the kink community both domestic and internationally.  I well have the maturity and sense of self to say that I seek not to use others, only share and to enjoy on a mutual basis.  That is, I'm not here for selfish satisfaction, but rather for the possibilities of good connection.  Does that mean I desire to be only single or not to have a relationship, by all means no.  I have had many over the course of my life and even in a married relationship so it is well with in the cards but requires the right chemistry and person to make that happen.  In the mean time I delighted to know and share.

 

So what about me.... well I've been in the past a professional dominant, though that concluded 15 years ago, so I'm well versed in the arts of ds, bd, sm.  I have engaged with ladies and couples to train both formally and informally.  The range has been from passionate to harsh, mental to physical, impact to sensory deprivation, to formal servitude and submission to slavery, from bimboification to ponygirl, slut to slave, from submissive to dominance training.  At heart though I am a dominant, I am a giver and sharer well able to lead but very comfortable with introduction of kink aspects and elements along with direct indulgences where experience is in place.  This with a keen respect of others, their relationships, discretion, and vanilla world we live in.  I've facilitated sceneing for photography purposes as well as delivered formal training seminars or classes both in the ds/bd arts and with fetish fashion.   What this means is I for sure know my share, but will never claim to know it all.  All of this however is with in the realms of limits both I and who I am with, choose to have.  I have had the great pleasure of situations where my partner was dedicated to me or was married and was seeking experience or was requested by a couple to provide experience an training such that their relationship was preserved, or were single seeking to grow and learn.

 

If you asked me what I enjoy, it is the sharing, the connection, the erotisim, certainly the pleasure.  If you asked me what are my pleasures, they range from a love of fetish fashion (leather, latex/rubber, pvc), especially when involved in play to the physical and mental aspects of bdsm pleasure.  I relish the dominant roll while being balanced and with the strength needed to draw from a partner the mutual pleasures we seek in the manner desired.  I enjoy the visual, emotional, and sensory pleasures with play.  My play, again with in mutual limits, can certainly stretch or introduce and can range from light to quite sincere, and sever if so desired.  How so? Well when I worked professionally, my clientele typically sought releases through certain approaches which matched to triggers they new or discovered during our time together.  As there was trust, things could be explored as there was always a reality of values in play.

 

What values, well I do feel a dominant's responsibility is first safety and protection of a submissive.  Even in very harsh play circumstances, this is paramount.   Included in this as well is straight honesty, and the ability to observe and listen and to support or provide leadership with confidence that is not cocky.