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| I've never been to good at these kind of things, trying to describe yourself just isn't one of my skill sets I suppose. But I suppose that this is really just a means to the end of things for the profile so away we go.
What I'm looking for:
Honestly I have no idea. Am I looking to find the whole "true love" thing? No, not because I"m a love hater or anything along those lines but because in the end I don't buy into the idea of "love" and forever. Instead I believe in taking what you have and can find and keeping it as long as it feels right and growing from it. If I had to say I am looking for something, I would say growth. Be it through a playing relationship, strictly online fantasies, or just coffee friends to share stories of wonder, lust, and handcuffs; all that matters is growth and good conversation.
What I'm into (BDSM wise):
A bit of everything. Spectrum wise I see myself as a switch with that gauge changing with whoever I'm with. Strong minded, leaders inspire me to kneel in respect and awe, and those that need the guiding hand bring out my dominate side to lead and correct when wanted. I don't have any many limits, but the few that I have I'm strong on. I don't believe in humiliation for either person in anyway, scaring / permanent markings without a lifetime commitment from both partners aren't for me. Beyond that, as long as its safe and everything is comfortable (so to speak) the skies the limit. I am a big fan of subtle control (leashings, collars, and bracelets, fox ex) as a subtle reminder of ones place, over the knee spanking is a oldie but a goodie, and recently I have become more in more interested in various forms of anal play.
Outside of BDSM, I have many interests. The arts and media fascinate me, I love to read and attempt to draw. Film and video games are a must, and finding me without music or a camera near is in rare form. Ideal first "date" is people watching, with coffee; followed by playing 20 questions and if the day goes well 10 do's and don'ts in the bedroom. 9 times out of 10 I'm downtown somewhere or randomly riding the trains and buses listening to conversations when I have no idea who they are about.
If you want to know more about anything please ask, don't be afraid I don't bite until the second date.
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