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I seen something on a news channel where Guy said those who served in miltary that we shouldn't just label them heroes and that we thrown the title of heroes around alot lately .
Now this got him in heaps of trouble cause it made him seem as he was not grateful .
my thoughts on matter is the man was right a cop is not hero cause he does his job or fireman or someone in miltary ...these people know what there getting into and thats makes them Brave .
A hero is not someone who does heroic act cause its job , a hero is person who did it without question , without thought they did it in split of moment .
the people on flight 19 on 9/11 were heroes
Much like wording people use in the lifestyle and without and the real world people throw titles around without much thought and quick to judge person that just expresses thought !
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I like to deal with open minded people and not ones who just agree with for sake to agree there a big difference .
when it comes to me and finding My one and its very simple at my age to know what I want rather then settle for something less which always fails .( thats experince talking !).
I seek the one who be the fuel to my Fire which would lead to burning inferno that would burn mentally physically and mainly the spirit. A Fire that would be burning ying and yang .
and that what I seek nothing more nothing less , simple ! (or maybe not ! )
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I am sorry to say No I do not have the power to part the Red Sea , I am just a Dom not a god .
sometimes you need to loose a few battles to win a war ! and somtimes when you win a war you still loose . |
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I see that many don't grasp the meaning of BDSM and to know it is not game .
You want games I am sure there over thousand on the net you can enjoy .
You want Fantasy then there plenty of movies and Books to choose from.
I am not here for games , what I am and what I am into is not game it is who I am and what I am ....
and only deal with serious people who are in or intersted in the lifestyle .
also if your Dom shopping please do not contact me in form of fashion .
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I been reading alot profiles thats what I mainly do here read .
But I seen alot subs/slaves do alot crying
example a few have mention that the Dom that they just meet didn't turn out to be what they expected .
If you don't talk to your Dom or if you have this mythical image of what you believe a Dom is then your Doomed to fail .
There difference between what a Dom is then the dream world your living in your mind .
A Dom will not act the way you want them to act and trying to match Brad Pitt to image of Dom will not happen .
my Best Subs in the past weren't the ones that were what we can say "model" images.
the best were the ones who were able to learn , wanting to learn and did learn and more important "talked ".
tagging or getting collared in day or week or month will lead to failure , trying to impress the chatroom will lead to your failure , attending alocal group and trying to impress them will lead to your failure .
First find it what it is your seeking and talk , then take it from there trying to impress others around you will not lead you to road of happiness .
if you don't match a person yet there picture changes your mind your doomed .
trying to with $ you be doomed .
there two biggest mistakes you'll ever make in your search .
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The $cow on this site is insane !
its no longer shared simlair interst or wants its now all about $ ....
BDSM is not about $ its about total power exchange ( the ying and yang of BDSM )...
If you want money or compare bank accounts the advise you to take your interst to bank ..
Domantion can't be bought or sold ....Submission can't be bought or sold ....
You won't learn BDSM from book , you won't understand it from local group the only way to learn is to experince it , to live it .....
over 15 yrs experince I seen it all herd it all nothing surpises me anymore , from internet sites to local groups the Gamers and Fakers keep growin ...
from the Dom shoppers to $cows to 18-24 yrs who claim to be Dom ...
Simple way of busting fakers ...
Where , when and how ...bening Born with Dom traits doesn't make you a Dom or experinced Dom tho person has to learn some where .
I got into lifestyle at age 24 I learned from experinced people in the lifestyle took me 2 yrs to learn enough to say I was Dom( notice I didn't say Master - that comes from experince ).
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there is nothing greater then to know that someone is yours .
and there is nothing worst then to know when someone is not yours . |
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Sundays ! the day to do things you put off all week .....so I am going to spend sometime trashing junk e-mails and reading inbetween .....
here something to ponder ...why join a chat site and people complain about chatting ?
its like a person that cries about there relationship that there partner is drinker .
You ask "where did you meet your partner ?"
the reply " At the bar ." and now you see the stupidty of people . |
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the road to enlightenment is road thru pain and if you don't want experince enlightment then you can never understand life and pains you will endure .
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its seems in all BDSM sites is plague by so call " Lifers " thats claim that they have a clue .
Here goes the following
1.18-25 and calling yourself a experinced Dom/Domme -huh
2.people who say there sub/Dom then in there profile go beyound throwin limts and then saying what they 'Believe Dom should be". (I am not speaking about limts). Thats called trying to Dom someone from the bottom .....sorry thats doesn't work.
3.Saying in your profile you know how to please your Dom has experince with Husbands-Doms
(if you had 3 husbands and you out on all 3 then you didn't please your Dom/Husband.)
(please note I am not speaking about someone that had more then one 1 Dom I am speaking on Dom/husband which is totally different matter).
4. I love reading- looking for succesful and $ , do not know where you learned you BDSM but $ has no place in it . I am waiting for Doms/Domme to post Looking for succesful and $ slave/sub.
5 . this is the best "My submission is a Gift" . This gets a eye roll .....ok if thats line you want to use so be it but if thats be case LOL , Then my "Domantion of you is a Gift."
here the simple way to understand BDSM .
once your owned by someone and (limts are known).
when your told to go ....you go
when your told to do....you do
when your told to do this ....you do it .
simple nothing else needs to be said .
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What does a true Dom want ? something thats real , simple as that age, distance , situation all thats doesn't matter .
Whats been lacking in the lifestyle and on CM , real people who are really into the lifestyle.
Comparing banking statements , looking for brad pitts or girl barbie = failure .
best advise in world take your time and find the match .....
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Everyday there something new and just when you think you can't be shocked anymore..Bang !
seems more and more this site becoming a site for either eharmony wannabe or people flirting in the lifestyle not actual people in the lifestyle ...
Seems like the last 10 plus years the fade of people jumping in the lifestyle keeps on going .....its not about $ and shockin moment of the day is How does someone make profile saying there "NEW" and less then day become "owned".
Collars out of crackle jack boxs ! LMAO
this why I read profiles ! |
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I can't believe my italia lost to USA in soccer the world is not right ! I am very depressed !
hates having a busy weekend , I can't wait to finish all that needs to be done and then be able to have time to myself ...
never enough time , I need 8 days weeks and 36hr days !
anyways after this weekend I be so happy for some free time . |
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words of wisdom
When something is yours its yours , when something is not then its not.
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I had dream last night ,
in the dream the Lord came to vist me and so we had chat ...
First he said " Go get me a a drink and not that diet shit either !"
so I went and got the Lord a Pepsi.
next he said " why aren't you talking , I have people talking in my ear everyday always bitchin, so speak up !"
I was very nervous first how does one ask the Lord for ID ? and second something was seriously bothering me .
so the Lord then said " look whatever you hafta to say just spit it out !"
after gathering myself and knowing what I hafta to say wasn't disrespectful thing but something of princple .
"Lord , I am glad you came to vist and you decided to speak with me of all people, but damn it your sitting in my chair !" |
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Its sad to see the amount BS that grows daily .
A pro Dom/Mistress at 22 yrs LOL ( sorry thats total joke ).
Person ask for picture but can't match what person is into ,like your looks will make them suddenly accpetable what there into.
"Successful" okay so I can be your Dom if I have $ , But are you "Successful" enough for me and will are bank accounts match ? LOL
Being in this Lifetyle is hard enough , If you think a "normal " realtionship is hard then let me clue you in . Being In the lifestyle is 10 times more harder .
You can find your ideal one who has looks , but not your ideal sub .
You can find your ideal sub , but not your ideal person .
Being as long as I have in the lifestyle I seen and herd it all , the Truth of Matter is until you find the right match its better never to accept anything less but then again never be shallow either .
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