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Well, havent been on here in a long time, but this site has been good to me in the past. Id thought Id kind of been done with this lifestyle the past few years, but I guess it never fully leaves.
A little bit about me... I smile, and if Ive pleased my Dom, I smile A LOT. I have a mind, an opinion and a voice, and usually the knowledge of when to speak with it. I am not a doormat. I also dont stand for abuse. I dont need a dom to make me feel as though I have value as a woman. Im not a submissive woman just for the sex, or the whips and chains, or because I have daddy issues. I am a naturally submissive woman who feels most comfortable when I am with a man in a supporting role. Sure, I think submission can be somewhat taught, if its only a kink. I was born with my type of submission, and its become more developed over time.
I like being dominated in the bedroom, too, but again, not always whips and chains, many times words and actions are more stimulating. Im most attracted to an assertive man, classy, powerful, fit, athletic, handsome. One who is intelligent, clever, witty. Around the right man, I feel like I fall into place, like its right. Around the wrong man, I battle the position. I definitely have a kinky streak, and there are some deliciously naughty things I love to do with my mouth. But, as I said before, Im not just looking to get laid. Thats not what gets me off.
Im ultimately looking for a (hopefully longer term) relationship that looks vanilla on the outside, but is truly Ds. If were out, having what would otherwise be a vanilla night, like out with friends or at a restaurant, but you give me that look, Ill know that Ive displeased you. I also feel Id make a great companion for a professional man. Im very proud of my grace, my civility, my respectfulness towards others. I strive to make a man proud to have me on his arm (preferably dressed up, in delightfully high heels). Extreme age differences (10
years) are not a hard no, but will likely not work for me because I am ultimately looking for a forever relationship that I can pass off as vanilla if needed.
I work in the medical field, and have planned a long and advanced career. So, Im not needing a man to support me or pay my way through life. If thats something you feel a need to do for your sub, thats okay with me, Id gladly accept that, but that implies a level of commitment to me, I wouldnt want that off the bat.
Because of that, though, I currently work a lot, sometimes at night. Unless theres a level of commitment that would persuade me to do otherwise, thats not really very negotiable. I can find a job in my field almost anywhere though, so Im not necessarily tied to the Portland area, though again, Im not likely to move to be with someone only knowing them for a short time.
In the past, I was quite plus-sized. I had gastric bypass surgery in 92011 and plastic surgery in 122012. I have scars now that will always be there. I also see myself as still a work-in-progress, even though I am now at a proper weight. I care a lot about my appearance and take pride in how I look. I love dressing up, love looking my best, and love impressing a Dom.
Theres so much more I could write here, but so much of that includes things Id like to discuss in person. So, if youre interested in getting to know me better, please write. If your message is sincere, if youve really read what Ive written, Ill do my best to write back.
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Wow... just saw that I've been on here since 2005... and still am looking. |
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Since it's my most frequent question-
Penguin: originally from a cold temp'd environment (Alaska), and 1/2 black, 1/2 white. Much better than being called an Oreo! |
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What is it about being an intelligent woman who knows what I'm looking for that makes men think I'm dominant? I am NOT dominant, CAN NOT be dominant, and WILL NOT be dominant. It's not me, and ultimately, it's not at all an enjoyable thought for me. |
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"Roommate" should not really be synonymous with "wife I don't want you to know about." Please, please be up front with me. I'm not looking to be the OTHER woman, I want to someday be someone's ONLY woman. And, history shows I'll likely find out anyway at some point. |
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I don't think an online only situation is what I'm looking for. So, long-distance is rarely what I'm looking for. |
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