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Thank you for stopping by and taking a peek at this my profile. I am not sure what to put on here, so here it goes...
I am new to this site, but only somewhat new to the lifestyle. I have been fortunate enough to have some experience under my belt, enough to know that I am very fascinated by it all and I am definitely looking for more. I would not consider myself a complete newbie, but I still feel I have much to learn. I am admittedly a tad nervous about coming on here, but I like to stay positive and hope for the best. I am single and live in Oxford.
I suppose I should start with why I am here in the first place. One of the reasons is that I hope to meet new people and make new friends, and hopefully in the process learn more about myself, others, and D/s and BDSM. The other reason is that I have experienced enough to know that this is for myself. It has not been the easiest of journeys, not bad necessarily, but rather challenging at times in terms of understanding, feelings, my desires, and myself. Thankfully, now I am at a place where I know this is indeed what I want and the doubts are gone. My ultimate goal is to one-day find a long-term situation with a special dominant. I tend to lean slightly more towards finding a dominant couple, however with that being said I am open to a female Domme or a female led sub/dom couple. My hope is that I find someone to serve that I click with on all levels, personality, intelligence, and power exchange. For me service and submission is not about the sex and kink, it is so much more than that and far more deep, and I look for someone who understands that in all ways. I am looking to submit and serve not because I am looking to fill my kinks, but rather there is something peaceful and liberating about giving myself to someone, to know that I can serve and please them, make them happy. For me it is about their happiness and pleasure, and knowing that I can serve them and give them that gift is what makes me feel happy and fulfilled. I see my submission as a gift and one that I want to give to someone special and deserving.
My interests are varied; mainly I enjoy power exchange and the act of submission to a dominant. I am very service oriented, but have had experiences with other kinks and fetishes. I am generally open and my limits are the reasonable ones, basically all the things that go without saying.
I believe in safe, sane, and consensual. With mutual respect, trust and good communications being the corner stones of a dominant submissive relationship. My safety is of the utmost of importance for me. If you are looking for only sex, then I am not the one for you.
What I hope to find is someone real and genuine, someone who is naturally dominant and does not play at dominance. Someone who in a sense lives it. I have realistic expectations and we all have lives outside of this, so I do not expect a situation in which I am caged and locked up 24/7. Rather I picture a situation in which I am a part-time slave, completely owned and servile in the dominants company, but at other times free to lead a normal life.
My hope is to really meet someone and get to know him or her, this will not happen overnight. I am open to exchanges on here and even chatting online, but please know that for me this is an initial screening/getting to know you process. I am not looking for any endless online exchanges, nor am I looking for something to simply happen overnight. My wish is that it will evolve naturally, without pressure so that we can get to know one another and if we hit it off proceed to meeting one another.
Even though I can be quite shy, I do tend to warm up to others once comfortable and I am open and honest, so for those who are interested please feel free to ask any questions that you might have of me.
Jane
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