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Update 20th September:

Is it really September already? Damn, where has the year gone!
2014 hasn't been the best one for me so far health wise, although I am slowly recovering. I've been to a couple of munches and hopefully there'll be more to come soon. No play or events for now though, although I miss them!
If anyone would like to genuinely just serve and put a smile on my face though, by all means send a message! I could do with it :-)
Also, anyone local who is up for some vanilla "get me out of the house" things, a walk, the coast, cinema etc - give me a shout!

Only a few minutes and then it will be my birthday... my wish for the day?

A whole day full of only nice messages! No copy and paste ones, no "do this or that to me" requests, no "what will you do to me" questions... but I fear most of you won't read this anyway! I wish I got some flowers each time a so called "sub" sent his wish list across. Think before you do that, shouldn't it the other way around?

Well, Happy St Patrick's Day to all of you out there and Happy Birthday to me. I shall go and buy myself some nice flowers today ;-)

Cake anyone?

Only a few days and I will be a year older again... now what to do on Monday? Will I get presents? Be taken out for a meal? Flowers? Sunshine? Well at least it looks as if spring is on its way... :-)

Its my birthday on the 17th - now where are my presents? ;-)

It seems my laptop is finally dying the old-laptop death :-( anyone got a spare one? lol

Where is Valentines day for singles? Guess I'll have to buy myself flowers and choccies then! ;-)

Erotic art books The Guild of Erotic Artists Vol 1

To swap:

For those of you who enjoy erotic photography and art:

The Guild of Erotic Artists Vol 1

Brand new A4, with some stunning erotic art and photography.

Description and some pictures can be found here:

http://www.theguildoferoticartists.com/index.?a=sa&i=book1

UK Price as per their website £26.50, however make me an offer - happy to swap for something else of interest as well!

I want these to go to someone who appreciates erotic art and photography.

UPDATE January 2014:

What I seek is a real relationship. Not some casual fun. I want commitment. Long term. Vanilla with kink. Female led. The whole package. With a confident man between 28-42. You have to impress the woman to get a chance to meet the Domme. Never the other way around. Treat me with respect. Let me get to know the person you are and show an interest in me. There is so much more to life than a mere fantasy. Where are you?

Have uploaded a few more creative pictures I took tonight... for open 2014 vacancies... apply here... ;-)

2014 events not to be missed?

Hi all,

hope you've had a good start into the new year!

As it's never too early to plan - and I love to travel and combine it with kink! - I was wondering if you know of any European events in 2014 that should be on my must do list?

The type of events I usually enjoy are...

• Very social and friendly
• More play orientated than dancey
• Have music at a level that allows for a conversation without the need to shout
• Have a fetish side to them, but are not purely fetish events, but also BDSM
• Smaller is sometimes more!
• Femdom would be an added bonus, but is not mandatory. No femsub events though
• Not couples only, what would a single Lady do there then after all? ;-)
• Good fun!

Hoping for inspiration and who knows, I might even meet a few of you this year.

Happy 2014 all!

x

Cinema, anyone? ;-)

Just uploaded my last picture of 2013... Happy 2014 all! :-)

Added another picture from this year to my profile... Does anyone even look at them?

NYE tomorrow... this Lady fancies champagne and strawberries... And a boy or three entertaining me! ;-)

Day 13 of fighting the bug. Today is the first morning I woke up feeling like I can breathe. Don't wanna celebrate just yet to not jinx it, but I might actually be winning the fight! 

Now to start working on the rest of my list... Still no volunteers to accompany me though! 

Looks like I got to work on my list alone! 

Still got 10 days off until it's back to work, now what to do with that time...? I have a few ideas...

• Get rid of this cold bug!
• Tidy up the house
• Sort out the garden
• Go to the cinema
• Go to the theatre -it's been way too long since I last went!
• Go out for a nice meal
• Go for a walk along the coast
• Visit a castle ruin
• Go swimming
• A day trip somewhere nice
• Take out my camera to take some pictures
• Find something to do for NYE, don't fancy a big loud party, but doing something would be nice.
• ...

Some nice company for a few of the above would be nice... do you want to help? ;-)

Just posted a new pic... do you like boots? ;-)

Sofa day today, trying to get rid of that cold bug and recovering from the travel nightmare. Really wish places were open today, don't feel like cooking. Now where's a boy to serve me tea? ;-)

Home sweet home! Finally. Time to relax. Unpacking can wait.

Finally managed to book a taxi from gatwick home. Hope streets will be ok now and no more hold ups. 

Just checked into a hotel near Gatwick Airport, no trains nor taxis home tonight. Will try in the morning. Nightmare xmas travel! :-(

Stranded at Stansted airport after my plane got diverted due to the storm - now how do I get back to West Sussex? :-(

Flying back to the UK tomorrow after a nice break. Sadly no boy there to pick me up from the airport or carry my bags for me... A lady can dream! 

Off to Germany tomorrow for a week :-) 

Then 2 more weeks off afterwards with no plans at all... Yet...! ;-)

Looks like I will have the next 3 weeks off work, yay!

Now, what to do...?

Really fancy going to the cinema this weekend! No fun on my own though...

Where is a time machine when a Lady wants one?

Why can't we just jump about 27 days into the future, leave the Xmas craze behind us and get on with life? 

Everyone seems stressed for weeks, it's consume terror at its best, people are too busy to remember friends and life stops, no matter if you want it to or not. 

Let's cancel Xmas and get on with life! And please don't ask me  afterwards if Santa has been generous - Ladies on their own don't get presents ;-)

Hmmmm, London this weekend? Femdom munch on Saturday... now where's a boy to accompany me...? ;-)

I still got a few days of holidays to take until end of the year and really fancy long weekend trips... a mix of relaxing and exploring and maybe even being served... A Lady can dream! 

Guernsey last weekend was great... really fancy Iceland as well!

Do you have suggestions for places to visit?

Come and inspire me...! :-)

How I misunderstood the concept of service

What does service mean to you?

To me, being served means a lot. Someone offering to serve me, makes me happy. It makes my life easier, but I also enjoy the underlying dynamic that comes with service.

Service for me doesn't come with demands or expectations in return, but is simply what it says: service.

A while ago, I posted an ad, looking for a boy to serve me in the house and garden, but also for a handyman. I made it very clear in my post, that this is a purely service related ad and no play or reward is offered in return, but I was looking for someone who enjoys the act of serving me.

I have been lucky to find a sub, who started to serve me regularly, who does my housework and helps with the gardening. He understands that this is a service to me and enjoys making my life easier, which is very much appreciated by me.

One of the more recent replies I got was from a handyman, who'd be visiting my area soon and he wrote:

I would love to offer my services to you to purely serve.

He offered to do some painting for me, which is something that would have helped me a lot and we agreed for him to serve me this week.

This morning then, after waiting for a while for him to show up, I found a message here on FL from said person, that he won't be coming today after all as agreed. His reasons were that...

• The weather is good, so he's going into town instead and...
• There doesn't seem to be any intention from me to play or pay him

Well, purely serve - I must have misunderstood that part after all!

Even if you did play who knows is id enjoy it.

Who knows, indeed. I might not be good enough for him or meet his high expectations...

I like subs who are reliable and true to their words. I am always true to mine and never make any promises I don't intend to keep.

One of the biggest mistakes I make though, is to believe in people.

Over the years, I lost count of how many times I got stood up by male subs. People always say there are so many subs out there and hardly any Dommes.

I would like to disagree.

If you add the words genuine and reliable to it, there are hardly any male subs. Yet they are quick to complain online about the lack of true Dommes.

If "true" means being there to serve a subs wishes (oh, the irony!), then no, I am not true at all.

The painting - I will do it myself. At least I know that I can rely on my word and trust it will get done.

It would be nice to get a boy to serve me, yes. But it is - as often the case - way too much hassle and not worth trying to find a genuine one who wishes to purely serve.

Such a shame indeed.

We're starting a new Femdom play event: Club Seduction on Sat 5th October

Femdom fun for all till late!

Join us at the UK's newest Femdom event: Club Seduction...

We will have several presentations and workshops for all to enjoy, snacks served by our maids, house slaves at the Ladies disposal...

More details to come soon!

Lets have some fun :-)

Who will join us?

Off to London tomorrow and I fancy shoe shopping! Anyone wanna join me? ;-)

Femdom munch this Saturday in London - who will join us? :-)

I'll be going to Rubber Cult with the lovely MsR in a couple weeks time! :-)

Now, who would like to serve us ladies...?

I would be interested to hear your thoughts though!

Just fell in love with the most amazing corsets I've seen for a while! My wish list has grown quite a bit in the last hour! ;-) Oh, I wish...

A whole long bank holiday weekend and no sub here to serve me... a lady can dream...

boy wanted for regular service in the South

Hello boys,

A few months have passed since my last attempt to find a servant. Maybe I'll be lucky this time around and find someone who seeks true servitude?

I am looking for a boy to serve me on a regular basis, ideally weekly.

Service would include cleaning and tidying up around the house, some gardening and maybe also some DIY/handyman tasks where necessary, chauffeuring me, doing the shopping...  

This is a purely service orientated offer, with no dressing up involved and no play is **guaranteed** in return. I am looking for someone who gets pleasure from serving - as I would enjoy being served.

So yes, this is work - but also involves a certain dynamic. I am not just looking for a free worker, but someone who truly wants to serve and make my life easier. Who would present his work with pride, who'd kneel in front of me with pleasure for a job well done. Someone who'd like to get to know me and learn how to serve me well, even by taking a break from the work to get me a cup of tea.

Depending on how well the service goes, this can potentially be extended to include other tasks like looking after my toys, playroom, wardrobe, polishing my shoes, maybe even accompanying me to events.

Applicants need to be self motivated and reliable, plus if you don't have a real life network, someone needs to be able to vouch for you.

Location is in West Sussex, about half an hour west of Brighton and weekends or evenings work best for me. That said, it looks like I might be able to work from home regularly in the future, so this could potentially be discussed as well.

This bit is important to me, as I want the right servant, not just anyone who wants a quick thrill: If you are interested, please tell me a bit about yourself and why you want to serve me.

Really fancy some new latex outfit! Just put a wish list together :-) anyone fancy sponsoring me? ;-) I want to add some colour to my wardrobe... Should I show cleavage or not...?

Common sense is what people on here don't seem to have. So let me spell out a few things here, to save us some time.

• I am a real person with a real life.
• I don't spend 24 hours a day on here.
• I am not on here for you.
• Even if you see me online, it doesn't mean I should have replied to you straight away.
• You are not the only one who has sent me a message.
• Just because we have exchanged a couple of messages doesn't mean that you are now mine and collared already.
• If you have sent me a message and I haven't read it yet, then sending more and more messages asking why I am ignoring you, will make you seem rather desperate.
• I am not into desperate subs, who don't seem to be able to relate to having a real life, which takes priority.
• I do have a profile, that will probably answer quite a few of your questions and you are allowed to read it.
• I will notice if you haven't read my profile, especially if you ask me to do xyz (enter random limit here).
• I prefer the correct use of spelling and grammar and dislike "txtspk".
• The word sapiosexual features in my profile for a reason.
• If you show interest in me as a person, you might find it can lead to interesting conversations.
• I am not here to fulfil your kinky wish list.
• I don't do "do-me-subs".
• I am friendly and approachable, not a stern, cold, arrogant fantasy Dominatrix of your dreams.
• I am me. You will have to make an effort to find out what that means.

Unfortunately I am not convinced that the people who need my hints above will actually read them. They seem to busy sending out random messages to as many people as possible. But hey, I live in hope...

Off to London today, Boat party tonight & Femdom munch tomorrow! :-)

As expected, no boy wanted to join me - their loss!

Seeking the unusual mix of vanilla and kink within TPE

I am looking for an Alpha sub, who wants to submit within a loving, meaningful Female led relationship. Someone who is not worthless, but proud, who loves to serve and explore deep levels of D/s under my guidance. You should realise that this is not about a fantasy, but can be reality.

Please read my profile and if you are interested, tell me more about yourself. I am attracted to slim/average tall boys in their 30s.

Current wish list...: Less work! More time for fun! A cute boy to do my gardening! Followed by a foot massage for me! Nice company for a trip to the cinema! And a nice meal out! A Lady can dream...

Almost 3 weeks to go until the next Pedestal. Shall I go, or give it a miss? Now, if I had a cute slim boy in his 30s to accompany me and serve me, that might just persuade me... Any volunteers? ;-)

It seems that spring might finally have arrived! We had a few stunning days down here at the coast and I am hoping for more to come! April was full of travelling within the UK, which was very enjoyable! Now... time to get the garden sorted and enjoy life :-)

Still hoping to find someone special to share good moments with, a walk along the coast, a weekend away, a good film in the cinema, a yummy Italian meal or just relaxing on the sofa... sounds easy, yet so hard to find!

Time flies! It's March already...

The year has been busy so far work wise, but I hope it will calm down a little.

Seeing that spring is almost here, I am looking for a boy to do some gardening and also DIY/handyman tasks around the house. This is a purely service orientated offer, no nudity or dressing up involved and no play is guaranteed in return. I am looking for someone who gets pleasure from serving - as I would enjoy being served.

Applicants need to be self motivated and reliable, plus if you don't have a real life network, someone needs to be able to vouch for you.

Location is in West Sussex, about half an hour west of Brighton and weekends or evenings work best for me.

If you are interested, please tell me a bit about yourself and why you want to serve me.

UPDATE Jan 2013:

Always happy to stay in touch with people and make new friends - or find people for events!

January is a very busy time at work for me though, so I am hardly online at the moment. Please show patience if I don't reply to messages straight away.

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2013 hasn't even started yet and I have so many places & kink events worldwide on my wish to do list! A girl can dream and hope! Anyone fancy being my travel buddy? ;-)

I am going to Club Pedestal on the 30th November - does anyone want to accompany me? :-)

For New Years Eve, I will be going to a kinky masked ball - that special someone to accompany me and submit to me is missing though... With almost 2 months to go, will I find him?

I still have some leave to take this year, so have decided to take a few long weekends off. Now, what to do with them though!? Does anyone have any suggestions? I would like to see some places around the UK!

If I could "create" my perfect match...

He would have a lot of personality definitely. I tend to go for alpha types, who don't seem very submissive in every day situations. I love confidence and humour in a man, intelligence is very sexy! And a deep understanding of D/s - someone who is strong and proud and willingly submits to me. A connection between us, that doesn't need words or labels. For a relationship to work, he needs to be a strong person... strong enough to allow me to be weak from time to time. Someone who enjoys life, is positive, shares my interests, loves to travel and explore and wants someone to share both vanilla and kink with!

And: he wouldn't be perfect after all, but a person, just like I am one!

A girl can dream...

Some things change - and some stay the same! Rediscovering my old profile was interesting...

Today I got a message on another website - I had forgotten that I even had a profile there and haven't logged in for years. When I went to view my old profile there, I was surprised as to how much of that old profile is still valid today. I don't live in London any more and the person I am looking for should now be 5 years older than what I wrote 5 years ago, but apart from that... but read for yourself:

I am German and moved to London in October 2007, although I spent a lot of time over the last year in London, too. Why did I move over then? Well I wanted a change, wanted to make new experiences and I love challenges - moving to a foreign country is a good one I think.

It hasn't been the first time that I jumped in at the deep end though. I spent some time in Australia and New Zealand on my own and spent some time in Ireland, which I absolutely love :-) Travelling around the world, getting to know new places, cultures, people... is a huge part of my life anyway. I don't want to spend my whole life at the same place and I've made some amazing experiences so far - more to come I hope.

Apart from that, I am into BDSM, always on the dominant side.

 I asolutely love DS with the right person and am looking for a long term DS relationship tending towards 24/7. I don't do vanilla relationship, they just don't give me what I need and want.

BDSM is a part of my life and I don't wanna miss it. I really like the London Scene and enjoyed going to clubs and events regularly.

For a LTR I'm looking for someone near my own age, between 25 and 35 with similar interests both vanilla and kinky ones, who is open minded. He should be sub but still have his own personality and know what he wants in life - with a bit of cheekyness as spice ;-) I love intelligence, humour, seductive charm... and I want to know "who" you are - as a man :-)

My vanilla me: I can be a quiet person - or bouncy, love to watch people, am interested in deep discussions, like the nature and absolutely love water - that's something I miss in London. I like going to the cinema and theatre and visiting museums. I like tea, hate coffee, love cider and drink wine, no beer. I don't smoke and absolutely hate smoke, so please...

Right, this profile is long enough now ;-) if you wanna know more you just have to ask...

Last year I followed my dreams and moved to the coast... and you should be in your end 20s to end 30s... but other than that, I still agree with my old profile...! Do you? ;-)

I am a person who is looking for another person. How comes, that so many people on here seem to be ignoring that fact, that we are all humans with a normal life and (hopefully!) normal interests as well?

As I wrote: I want the woman to be approached. This woman happens to be dominant, it is a part of me, defines who I am. However, if you only approach that one part of me, I won't be interested. There is so much more to life! Equally, I am interested in the person behind a profile!

The most important thing for me is to feel a connection with someone, be it as friend or something more. Without this connection and chemistry, I will not be interested.

What I want is an often misunderstood concept that is often interpreted as a fantasy. TPE or 24/7 for me doesn't mean giving up ones life, it also doesn't mean playing all the time or living in a cage or chains. That might sound nice as a fantasy, but would also be quite boring! The underlying knowledge though, of who is in charge: A deep look in the eye, a raised eye brow, a word or gesture, a deep understanding... make everyday life so much more meaningful!