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I am a mature active height weight proportioned gentleman who enjoys the finer things in life, including the women in his company. I am well educated, well mannered, and well traveled. After graduate school, I spent the professional years of my life in 7 different states and two foreign countries. I am visited 5 continents and numerous countries both with work or enjoying on holiday. I am seeking a woman with whom I can connect intellectually, socially, and of course in a sensual FLR.



Thinking back on my life and childhood, I have always been submissive except when pressured by peers or a dominant figure, parents, teacher, etc. I first discovered Ds, quite by accident, my ex-wife and I were swinging. We thought of it as play with my then ex-wife trying to be Dominant and I the submissive. This went on for several years and I learned more and more about the lifestyle. After my divorce I found other women with whom to relationships with as a Ds couple. Then about 5 years ago, I met a Switch who was Dominant, she and I ed a Ds relationship.
As our time together grew, she became more dominant and she continued her trained of me as her submissive. This was the real beginning of my submissive life. I derived great pleasures from making my Mistress happy. She took control of my life, trained me, and shaped my life to satisfy her desires and needs and at the time time my service to her satisfied my submissive needs.



I have a well rounded life, am self-sufficient, and stable, but need a strong dominant Lady whom I can make proud in public, and who accepts the surrender of myself to Her and who controls and directs my place with her when together. I am seeking a long-term, total power exchange (TPE), female-led relationship, plain and simple. A Dominate Lady who is caring, loving, and respectful of my submissive to her, being her partner, and yet a strict disciplinarian when necessary. I am seeking a serious relationship, one that will provide nurturing, training, caring, and understanding.



No professionals please.
PattyM
 
 Age: 45
 Rochester, New York