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What is it to be a slave/submissive to a Domme?

The slave/submissive must be loyal,honest, able to serve and blend into his Mistress's life. He must serve her wants and demands without question. He must be available to her whenever she has a whelm for the slave to serve. He must be true in his desire to serve.

This is not a game. Servitude is a lifestyle, a need, a desire to please his Owner, his Better. Service to a Domme can be a life changing experience, one that will shape the slave's life, his very essence will seek to serve...

Ask yourself these questions and you may find your true calling.

Do you seek to service? Be honest with yourself.

What does being a slave mean to you? Is it sexual or do you truly feel it deep in your soul, the calling to be submissive to your true Mistress? Does the calling to be submissive pulls at your very being day in and out? Are you driven to serve? Does the thought of being control and dominated surround your ever thought? Have you tried to hide those feelings but can no longer? Do you find that the thoughts are now leaking into your vanilla life? Can you see yourself at the feet of your Owner? Are you ready to serve?

Now ask yourself, What links would you go to be a slave/submissive to a Goddess? How bad to you want to learn? What would it mean to you to truly serve in My World? What is your role? Do you exist for her comforts or do you exist to please yourself?

Start this decade off right. Seek out your true seek. Stop hiding and get on your knees. Be the slave/submissive that's calling to your soul.


Know that a Domme's standards/criteria are high. You may be put through many tasks and tests to see if you are that slave that can service in her lifestyle. And if you fail to complete a task or fail to perform to her standards then your place as a slave will be forever unfulfilled.

Can a Domme be demanding, spoil, greedy in her wants. Yes she may. She has that right. These are things that empower her. It is a true slave/submissive nature to seek out and service her needs. Is it hard to service? Yes. But the reward of knowing you have pleased her is your satisfaction. Are her wants and desires before the submissive? Yes. She is your better. Therefore must always be first in your exist.

Be it online or real time your task must be completed. The first failure may be your last. And you will be disregarded. If you are disrespectful you will be blocked.

Before contacting any Domme. Know what you exist for. Know what you can provide to the Domme. Don't lie to her, be true in yourself. She will decide if you can blend into her world and what use you can be. If you waste her time. You can go away knowing that you will be labeled as a faker, loser and time waster. A pathetic being that should not exist.

And truly would you want to be placed on a list of losers?

Find out your Dommes interest and fulfill them. And must important when you contact the Domme with your petition. Make sure your spelling is correct. No nude pictures unless the Domme has asked you for them. But always send a picture of your face to show that you are true in your quest. Be patient, don't forgot there are many of your "brothers" out there that are petitioning for a place in the House. IM id's are very helpful to the Domme if she feels you are fit to put under consideration she will contact you and IM is the preferred method.

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No bisexual slaves/submissive need apply or Switches.

Whatever happen to the masculine male that knows his place when he is confronted by a Dominant woman. 

Everyone  asks me the same question: "What I am looking for?" well I'm not looking for a sissy male or a bisexual male that likes to dress up like a woman. If I want a woman submissive then I would be looking for that which I am not. I want a submissive male that in his vanilla life he's masculine but when he comes across a Domme he is ready to let go of his masculinity to serve her.   If I want him to dress up for me then he'll do so, not that he enjoys dressing up like a female but because it makes me happy and because I have command him to do so.  The submissive that I seek will go beyond himself to be in my world.  He'll have a life of his own but is willing to sit at my feet.  This is the submissive that I'm looking for. 

I will not meet or cam with someone that I'm not intersted in and have no chemistry with. Or one that says I have to request a picture from him.  I should not have "request a picture" you upon contacting me should know you must summit one for my viewing.  Otherwise I won't think you're serious about being submissive or slave.

So if you idenitify yourself as bisexual or sissy or tranny then I'm not interested in you.  DO NOT contact me because I'm not interested.  You only waste my time as well as your owe when you could be searching for the person that is intersted in your kind of fetish. 

When time is of the essence why waste it on someone that clearly isn't intersted in you?

 

 

The joys of looking for that one slave that can be your optimal pet.

Why is it that I find males on here that don't understand that D/s isn't all about your sexual fantasy.  It's a lifestyle.  It's a passion that burns so deep that you think about it often.  It's not something that you can find from. 

It's about finding the connection with a  Domme that you're able to give yourself over too.  Trusting her to free that burning hunger that's been buried inside yourself for so long that you don't want to hide it from it anymore and you'll do anything to please her just to be near her.  If you feel that then that's who I'm looking for. 

Not these time wasters and fakes that all you want is a quick fix to a boring day.  If you don't truly want to serve than DO NOT contact me.  Keep your silly comments to yourself.  I just delete anyway.  You waste your time and most importantly my time. 

If you want to learn and grow with em then send an email but be patient I'll contact you at my leisure.
Why can't pigs follow directions?  R they mindless or can they not read?  I wonder.....
A True Ebony Queen:


Due to my expectations, I know that I'm not for everyone.  I can admit to being a little more than demanding, high maintenance and I can be a demanding bitch. I can say without a doubt that I am unapologetic for what I want and what I demand.  If you have a problem with my attitude, than it is best that you do not contact me.

So make sure that you understand what you are getting yourself into when you contact Me.  I am insatiable  in My desire to develop Myself, My style and My interest and My wants.

Do not mistake Me for some mindless, un intelligent person, do not mistake My wish to learn and seek out knowledge as submission for you will not find me to be anything other than a Dominate by nature.

your first point of contact is very crucial.  Fuck it up and you have narrowed your chances of services from slim to none.  you are a pig to me, a minion and nothing more.  When you contact me, you better be on your knees, for this is your station, you must be humbled, communicative, and somewhat intelligent.  Those wanting to be babysat, coddled, or lacking the ablity to follow directions, lacking the general desire to serve need not contact me. 

Always remember your "needs" are secondary to Mine and the only thing you "need" to do is adhere to the proper Authority of a Woman.

The pig is nothing without the Authority of a Woman.  It does not exist without servitude.



Why can't pigs follow directions?  Did the pigs brain leak out?

Did the pig forget its manners?  When the pig introduces itself, there better be a picture attached otherwise the message will be deleted.