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| I got locked out of my profile rivermeetsocean1 upon creating it, and this is my new attempt! Apologies if you messaged me on that account; I was unable to recover it tragically. But, new beginnings!
And hello! Sincere submissive male here, seeking his better half. I truly believe that my person is out there, and that I have a lot to offer her. I enjoy knowing that likeminded folks are out there even if circumstances (e.g. living on Easter Island) make a relationship not possible, so feel free to say hi if you'd like!
I'm a masculine-presenting, tall, shaved-head guy. Recently single after a 20-year long relationship; I do not have children. I'm here seeking a deep, lasting connection with a strong, rugged soul. I am attracted to cleverness, mischief, creativity, and strength of character. I adore being on the receiving end of a woman's sincere and conscious dominating energy, and submitting to it promptly, consistently, and fully. I'm reasonably sane, thoughtful, and have done the work to integrate this part of myself into the whole. I view my submission as something that flows naturally out of my masculinity and do not feel "detracted from" because of how I experience romantic or sexual love. At base what I want is a relationship where we both can experience profound and mutual depths of trust; my trusting in your leadership, increasingly, without question; and, your trust in my sincerity, my commitment, and that your instructions will be obeyed competently, swiftly, and enthusiastically.
I love music, cooking, reading, politics, being outdoors, travel, silly fun, serious fun, learning new things. Without getting into the weeds, I tend to draw water from many wells and have a wide range of interests. Peoples' passions are infectious to me and I love to learn about them. As far as worldview goes, I'm generally a religious nonbeliever, and am on the left-progressive side of the political spectrum, but I respect other worldviews and work hard to keep an open mind and to not embody a stereotype. I am fairly well-read, educated, and monetarily stable. I'm aware that any dynamic takes time and mutual trust to build, and so I prefer a conscious process of getting to know someone as a first step prior to anything else. I am not looking to rush into a relationship, and prefer being single to hopping straight into a situation that leaves one or both partners unfulfilled. Basically - I want to do this right.
For me, this is deeply psychological. I am motivated at core by pleasing those I care for, and with a romantic partner I experience love, infatuation, and arousal all in parallel with a desire to please and obey her. It's something about myself that I embrace, but I'm also plenty aware that that's only the starting point. A woman's personal posted on here awhile back said that in our society, male submission ought to be table-stakes in these relationships, and that in order for power exchange to work, the submissive partner needs to have *power* to *exchange.* I resonate powerfully with that way of thinking. I see any specifics of kink as basically "decorations" on top of the foundation of a solid connection and a serious commitment to a power exchange, and while some decorations can be lovely, they're not what drive me. In writing these profiles it's easy fall into thinking of the "dynamic" as existing permanently in that deep-subspace state where your Voice is ringing in my head like churchbells and I'd sign my soul away to you if you tell me to - and I'm kind of deliberating trying not to focus on those "peak" experiences because that's not what defines the foundation. What matters is building something unique with someone who thrives best when she's in control. I would love to be the one who moves mountains, for you.
I know you're out there somewhere. :) Cheers! |
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