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One top is too soft. :-(
Another top is too hard. (!)
But this top is just right. :-) (Though maybe not right all the time, as much as I may wish otherwise.) :-) :-) :-)
I tied up my first eager lover back in 1984, and have introduced D/s elements into just about every relationship since then. I only have had about 8 relationships I'd characterize as *mostly* D/s, but those averaged about 3 years apiece. What you can draw from this is that I tend to be a relationship-based kind of guy, and I bring a good deal of experience to the table. I tend to play with beginners and intermediate women, not the hardened core. I desire a degree of specialness from play that comes more from discovery and exploration more than perfection honed from hard service.
It is often easier to say what you are not, than what you are. I am not the guy you dreamed of from The Marketplace series, or The Story of O. I am not a hardcore lifestyle dom. Sorry, safe words, and making sure play is mutually enjoyable is sort of My M.O.
I insist on knowing my subs outside of the bedroom. I respect hard limits (though playing with soft limits is a special joy) and insist on Safe Sane, and Consensual. Though there is always a degree of theater in D/s play, I really do need to like you for play to be satisfying for me.
I do what I do, unconcerned with whether or not I am a real dom any more than you should worry about being a real sub. (Your top should guide you as to what he wants, and what you yourself find satisfying.) As long as my subs enjoy our play, I figure thats dom enough, and that leaves plenty for us to explore as time goes on. I realize that for some on this list this is too soft for your needswantsdesires. I wish you luck on your continued search. That being said, I can and do play hard with the right, eager partner, but hard play is something you build up to, not jump right into out of the box. How would one build up the right level of trust?
I am more of a D/s guy than an S&M guy, though pain can be indeed in my repertoire. I am an accomplished tease. I enjoy light to intermediate bondage, public play (within reason) and just topping in general. My favorite subs tend to be the ones who enjoy service and who are vocal. Im all for funishment but I dont tolerate bratty behavior to earn it. I enjoy (temporarily) marking my subs, but that is negotiable. I am BBW friendly, and enjoy topping women taller than my 5'8" I have a soft spot for long hair, and I find that creative women make the best subs. It really is all about chemistry though, and good subs come in all varieties.
If what I offer is of interest to you them by all means drop me a line even if you do not feel yourself to be a perfect fit. (If you were already perfect, what fun would play be anyway?) If not, do enjoy your quest here on CM. Im told there are some very nice people (who play nicely naughty) on CM, and I'm sure someone will meet your needs if you,re patient. -) |
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