Hello all, i final got a chance to update this profile. God i hate writing these things. Well anyway I'm just on here looking around and stuff. Would really like to get that special someone that i can live the bdsm lifestyle with... or friends or whatever really I'm pretty easy going with the whole thing. I have been told I am a good dom but I'm really not like a lot of the guys i see on this site. I do believe in respect and that it goes both ways in even a bdsm relationship, just because your a submissive doesn’t make me better then you. I HATE violence/abuse towards woman and alot of the things that i see on this site make my skin crawl. BDSM doesn’t mean you can just do whatever you want, the person you are with is a human being too and I know we all have our fantasies but come on this is reality. I'm not saying I don’t like lifestyle bdsm but i understand where to draw the line. As i said I'm pretty mellow, not very demanding, nice, and stuff like that. Don't worry i still like discipline and the like as much as anyone else lol. Pretty much I have a few rules that I want to have for a slave girl that i would want to train but I'll get into that if we start talking. I really believe that bdsm is a lot about mutual trust and that a submissive should submit because she wants to not because I’m holding all the keys. I am up for force play if my partner is its just that’s what it is play, I'll happily set up a safe word for you. I'm patient and can take my time with a new slave, I have my own goals for what i want in a sub and will discuss that with anyone who is interested.
I know that some of you girls that are looking for a "real master" may see what i wrote as being soft. I used to think that i could be that kind of hardcore dom but somebody special showed me that, I'm not that kind of person. So all you girls that are looking for a tight ass I'm not your guy.
