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What is there to say? I am a Dominant. I have been doing it for many years. I have a much different approachphilosophy than most of My local community.
Honor, respect, honesty, and trust are the most important parts of Myself and My BDSM. I have no interest in breaking submissives. To Me this lifestyle is not only about consent, but ined consent. I do view submission as a gift. I am a stern nurturer. My greatest joy is to see My submissive bloom and thrive under My guidance. My submissive is My prized possession. I create strong and empowered submissives because I believe that they are a reflection of Me. I am skilled at impact play. I am not a Sadist. I believe punishment is punishment, and play is play. I punish My submissive only when it will help her to be a better person and never in anger. I am a romantic. I am a Christian. I am a philosopher. I am not a preacher or a pusher. I lead by example.
Kink aside, Im quite a busy guy. Im currently applying to graduate schools in order to earn my PhD in Psychological Research. So Ill be relocating soon and staying there for a few years. If you have an interest in me youd better be in the area of where Ill be attending school, or willing to relocate.
Ultimately I seek a long term or even life long relationship, but lets start slow shall Wwe? I am currently not in possession of, training, or considering a submissive. I am not actively seeking one either, but I am interested in receiving introductions from available, submissive women. I do not recruit. In My mind an introduction of Myself, by Myself, walks a fine line between being social and trying to recruit, so I usually dont. If you are a female submissive and Ive introduced Myself to you it is for the purpose of intellectual exchange and nothing more.
If you are looking to frequently get beaten black and blue and bloody or if you are looking for quick, easy or meaningless sex, dont waste Oour time, look elsewhere.
If you are looking to be Dominated, appreciated, respected, and protected while you serve, obey, accept and please then maybe you should inquire. The journey begins with your question to Me.What do I look for in a submissive? The two most important traits to Me are desire and obedience, at least for starters. Show Me a desire to submit and Ill see if you are capable of obedience, its just that simple.
If you care to stalk Me, feel free. I can be found using the same name on several sites. For a list of My kinks find Me on FL.
I am always happy to discuss this lifestyle with anyone. Im happy to mentor or teach when it is in regard to an area in which I feel qualified. Just ask!
Want to know the particulars of My kinks? Just ask Me or you can find a pretty good list on another site (FL), I use this name for everything.
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I seem to get an awful lot of responses in reference to an older journal entry. I close the entry by saying "maybe it is an appearance issue" What I mean to say here is that my appearance is not suited to my play-style and D/s philosophy. I t seems that submissives who are seeking my particular brand of Dominance are seeking a clean cut, monied man in a suit and tie, while the submissives who seek someone with my appearance seem to want a dominant who is cold and uncaring or abusive and degrading. While I do think my looks are the least of my qualities, I don't think I'm repulsive or ugly, in fact I am holding up rather well for my age. |
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So it seems the mystery was solved at last. Those message filters are going to block My responses to you if you have them set to filter any of the things I am, even if you contact Me first. I respond to EVERY message I get so if you don't get a response, check your filter. |
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Mahamaya, there seems to be a problem with you not receiving my responses. I assure you that I would like to talk with you. Try emailing me using this same name at hotmail if you see this entry. |
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I find it amusing how approximately half of the submissive women on this site say that they are seeking a strong but gentle Dominant who will treat them with respect and who is intelligent and real. They will then continue on and complain about all of the fake dominants out there who contact them. Many of those same women look at My profile and never bother to message Me. Do they not see that I'm exactly what they say they are looking for? Maybe it's an appearance issue....
If you're reading this make sure and watch the vids below, they are good. ;) |
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http://youtu.be/LGD9i718kBU
There's an army
On the dance floor
It's a fashion
With a gun my love
In a room
Without a door
A kiss is not enough
In
Love my way
It's a new road
I follow where
My mind goes
They'd put us
On a railroad
They'd dearly
Make us pay
For laughing
In their faces
And making it our way
There's emptiness
Behind their eyes
There's dust
In all their hearts
They just want to
Steal us all
And take us all apart
But not in
Love my way
It's a new road
I follow where
My mind goes
So swallow
All your tears my love
And put on
Your new face
You can never win or lose
If you don't
Run the race |
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http://youtu.be/3UZnFnggTWM
Let's dance little stranger
Show me secret sins
Love can be like bondage
Seduce me once again
Burning like an angel
Who has heaven in reprieve Burning like the voodoo man
With devils on his sleeve
Won't you dance with me
In my world of fantasy?
Won't you dance with me?
Ritual fertility.
Like an apparition
You don't seem real at all
Like a premonition
Of curses on my soul
The way I want to love you
Well it could be against the law
I've seen you in a thousand minds
You've made the angels fall
Won't you dance with me
In my world of fantasy?
Won't you dance with me?
Ritual fertility.
Oh come on little stranger
There's only one last dance
Soon the music's over
Let's give it one more chance.
Won't you dance with me
In my world of fantasy?
Won't you dance with me?
Ritual fertility.
Take a chance with me
In my world of fantasy.
Won't you dance with me?
Ritual fertility. |
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I find myself in the enviable position of having no responsibilities and money budgeted to do some traveling with. All of this will end shortly after the new year at which time I'll be returning to school in pursuit of a new degree and career. I hope I get to take advantage of this time. It would be great to make some new connections in the next couple of months. |
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