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I'm a 52 year old female sub. I'm new to this lifestyle. I, like everyone else, am looking for that One. Someone that I can share both this lifestyle and the vanilla world. I search for a friend, companion, lover, and Dom. Someone who will teach me to be the perfect sub for Him. I have met so many wonderful people on this site. People who are generous with their advice and their kindness. Thank you, to you all! I'll keep searching for that One, to teach, guide, and train me in this lifestyle. I very much want to learn.
QUESTION! I see a lot of profiles stating no game players. Shouldn't this be a given? Does it mean that profiles not stating this, want game players? Just asking.
Can someone explain why I keep seeing Doms/Masters (can't speak about subs/slaves because I've not been looking at those) who have new names and profiles.  A lot of the time it's with the old pic.  It's obvious that it's the same person.  I don't understand.
I should be the poster child for "Dumb moves"!  Always take your time to get to know someone!  We all want to find the "right" one.  But that takes time.  You can't rush it, because the other person doesn't want to "fuck around" with this.  You need time to get to know someone and know if you're compatible.  If someone wants to rush you, back off!  If it's meant to be, it will be.
LOL!  I do wish some people would grow up and quit acting like spoiled brats throwing a temper trantrum!  Then they take their marbles and go home! (They block your mail) I'm sorry, but expected more adult behavior here.  LOL!  Oh well, I was wrong. 

Why is it that when you say you're submissive, Doms want to turn that into slave?  I just don't understand this.  If I was a slave, I'd say so.  I don't question their "Dom-e-ness"!

I've found that things do happen for a reason.  Somethings it's not clear what that is, but eventuallly it will be.  I try very hard to stop and count my blessings now and then.  It makes you realize just how lucky you are.

It's also wonderful to know just how many friends I have here!

Someone told me I sounded glum in my last journals.  I didn't mean to.  I was just reflecting on things that have happned.  I actually have a lot in my life to be happy about.  I have wonderful daughters, great vanilla friends, and some of the most generous and kind people on this site, that I consider my friends!  I wouldn't have gotten this far without them!

   Although things didn't turn out as I would've liked, there's always tomorrow!  I have to believe that there's a Dom/Master out there for me!  I just have to be patient(not one of my strong points!).

   To all who have helped me, thank you! 
When things don't work out, you not only lose a Dom/Master, you lose a friend.  And that may be the hardest to deal with!
To whom it may concern!  Trust needs and has to be earned!  Not just blindly given!