For those who think they will never find that person who accepts them and their kink, never give up hope.  It may take time -- a lot of time, in fact - but it is well worth the wait when you find it.  And when you do, it will feel so right from the first moment - do not be afraid to say so, either.  Don't waste any more time waiting for the "right moment" - what ever the hell that means.  Societal norms do not apply in the kink world so do not think that there has to be a standard waiting period to confess your passion.

Life is too fucking short.

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For now I will just say that I am interested in finding the submissive that fills My desires and needs, who is not otherwise attached and can focus himself on My pleasure as I give him the collar and leash he craves.

I found that I have to amend My profile to include the following because I have been receiving so many emails - you will not get a response unless it meets the following criteria:

your profile should be filled in and include a picture of some kind

OR

your email should have detailed information about what you seek with Me and what experience & limits you have along with a pic

OR

a combination of the above to give Me a reasonable amount of info to make a decision.  I do not have endless time to 'Ask you what I want to know" and pull it out bit by bit.  

If you put little effort into your profile and/or emails, that says to Me that you will put little effort into serving Me and I will not waste My time on boy toys who are just here to satisfy their own desires without putting proper respect for Me at the top of their list of desires.

I do understand the need for privacy until you feel comfortable with Me, but you can send a pic without your face or a non-direct view so that I have at least some semblance of an idea of what you look like.  It is not all about looks for Me, but I detest talking to anonymous people on the net.  And yes, I realize you could simply post any pic and claim it is you, but when that is discovered, you will be kicked to the curb and blacklisted, so do not try to pull crap like that as it will come out eventually.  

Be respectful of My time as well, I am inundated with emails and while I may have read your email and be interested, I do not always have the time for a well though out response when one is warranted.  I try to at least read through them all every day to keep up, but I am not here for your convenience so respect My time or find someone who puts up with your demands because I will not be bullied and goaded into a response (like the "oh, you must hate me" kind of crap).

I guess I am going to have to say this, even though I think it should go without saying, but a submissive is not supposed to demand My time or attention, or pout or become bratty to get it either.  Patience is a virtue you must possess or quickly learn.  I am not your "fetish doll" to fulfill your kinky desires and needs at your convenience.  Get a hooker for that shit and don't bother Me with that kind of attitude. 

Those who have met Me know that I am a very caring and knowledgeable Domme.  If I let you into My domain, you will find a very intelligent, kind, caring, kinky and experienced Dominant with a lot of skills and not just a hooker with a collar and a crop.  I take this very seriously and seek someone who truly wishes to surrender control, to serve, to obey and to please.

Lady DE