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PPH.
Pain
Pleasure
Humiliation
I enjoy inflicting all three of these, not necessarily in equal amounts of course.
I'm an Alpha type man in all walks of life, and I'm looking to meet a partner who appreciates those attributes. Someone who is as feminine as I am masculine.
A ying for my yang.
Online at first is fine, for your safety (and my sanity) we need to know each other as well as we can before we meet. I don't intend to waste anyone's time with endless emails though. If you have no intention of ever taking this into real life, then please don't waste my time and yours.
As with all you private information, I respect your right to share your face and identity only when you are ready. Please extend me the same courtesy.
If I wanted to identify myself widely, my face pic would be on my profile or in my first message. It's not, and there is a very good reason for that. I deal with a great many people in my career, and within the industry I'm widely known (no, I'm neither a celebrity, nor a salesman). I don't want this part of my life impacting upon my career.
So don't assume that no face pic means a fake.....supplying a false face photo is easy for fakers to do. The lack of a face photo just means that I will share things like that when I know more about you.
Having said all that, if you choose to have a face pic on your profile, then you clearly have no problem with people seeing your face.
In that case I will expect verification that the pic you have up is genuinely yours fairly early on.
I will ask you to take a photograph of yourself with an everyday object of my choice. If you are genuine it could hardly be easier. If you are a fake, it will be impossible. I don't need anything nude or compromising. I don't need anything high quality. Just one new everyday photo including something that I choose and your face.
I value;
- Intelligence. Please don't call yourself, or attempt to be, a 'brainless bimbo'. Obedience does not equal lack of intelligence.
- Self worth. I will use you, train you and mould you, but I want a piece of clay that's worth my while before I create my masterpiece.
- Self respect. If you fell no need to work, then I'm not interested (I have no issues with temporary unemployment). If you don't make an effort with your appearance (most of the time) then I'm not interested. If you're lacking in personal hygiene (no exceptions) then I'm not interested. I don't expect a supermodel/CEO, but I make an effort in all aspects of my life, and I expect you to as well.
- Sexuality. I will control your orgasms, both giving and denying. There may well be non-sexual, yet still BDSM orientated play, but I categorically do not want a 'service slave' who wants nothing more.
- A sense of humour. Let's face it, a lot of what we do, were it not for the intense turn-on while we're doing it, would appear to be more or less ridiculous. I feel the need to laugh at what we do (at appropriate times) and I would hope you could too.
I ultimately want that 'nilla connection, with someone wants with all their heart to belong to a strong, dominant, but caring man.
Note well; caring does not equal 'soft'!
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| Age: 28 |
| Silver spring,
Maryland |
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