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piespe

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	Dominating with style I am very dominant, both in life, and in my relationships. I do not like pain, I don't like to receive it, and I hate to give it. Which is why mostly if I spank or whip it has to be for a really good reason. Basically I am looking for some real life power exchange relation. A woman that can offer herself fully. Both in the bedroom, but even more in real life. My model is not the rough BDSM, but more the Odalisque tutorial. Except I expect my partner to be able to help in the house, as well as accept punishments when she needs it. I respect safe words. In bed I am not only dominant, at times I can also be submissive, for the right girl who would like to explore that side of her sexuality. But in life I am only dominant. I am an extremely interesting person. I have a full life, I travel nearly every week, and have multiple interests. I also practice meditation and Tai Chi. In short if I were to find a woman who were to give up her life to become my full time slave she would not get bored... On the other side I am not very experienced in BDSM. I never have been in the "scene" as I understood people say. In future I would like to set up a poly household. For now a Victorian Household or 50's household would be a good start. I am also open to just friendship, as I need to expand my circle in this world.

I just rewrote my full description.

Ok, after a brief chat we reached the conclusion that I am:

alpha male,
into 1950s household (or DD).
I also travel a lot but mostly in Europe.

I have no center (my center in my tan tien).

And since I do not have sex with condoms, I am obviously not into casual sex.
So first we get to know each other, then we take an HIV test, then we have sex.
Very 1950 ;-).

I should just advertise myself like this.

still learning to use this thing. The "hide" button is my friend, so far. I just hide anyone I am not interested, and "favorite" anyone I want to check out later. Just discover this means I will appear as an "admirer", Well wtf, words are important. Can't we just be: someone who is vaguely curious, but nothing more, and potentially much less?!

I am actually here looking for a human being. For as strange as this can sound.

I am NOT here to do cyber sex, to get excited reading profiles, and similar.

If I contact you it means that I find you are honestly an interesting person. But if there is no connection, we'll let that die.

In my life I had physical, emotional and intellectual connection. Rarely all three with the same person. As I am getting older (I just hit 42), the intellectual connection seem to become more and more important. To the point that I rarely find any satisfaction with people with which I don't have such spark.

I don't like clubbing, loud music (there is a reason for that), going late at night.

I am a bit monkish in this respect. But also my sexual desires are a bit monkish. I move from celibacy to kinkiness.

But the most important thing is that for me domination is not a game I play. It is a style of life. I live my whole life in a sort of aggressive way. I love it that way. But of course such attitude recalls the opposite in the people next to me. And when this does not happen, trouble arises. So I tend to be dominant respect to life. But when I have a girlfriend I am also dominant respect to her. Not in a violent way. And not necessarily in a sexual way. But for sure in a life-decisions way.And this is deeper than any role play, or kinky scenario, and so on.

Probably what I should be looking for is a DD or a 1950 household, 24/7, relationship.

And if you have any experience about it, please, please, send me a message, and tell me more. I need to know.

Thanks for having read all this.

Pie