Collarspace

I would like to find an intelligent, attractive, and well-rounded submissive or sub-tending switch, for dating, play, and if all works well, hopefully a LTR. I identify on the dominant side of the spectrum, but I do not believe in any natural order of things or people. It is all about what two (in most cases) people agree to.

I am rather tactile and have been into bondage and sensual play on and off for most of my adult life. I also very much enjoy role-playing various power control scenarios. I have occasionally played at public events, but thats been a very long while, and I prefer to private things private.

I must admit to being as visual as most men, and want my partner to take care of herself, physically, and also how she presents herself (dress and appearance in general). So while I do not expect some athlete or model, please be reasonably fit, and dress better than your average Portland slob.

Outside of kink, I am into enjoying music and food (eating and cooking), films, skiing, sailing, scuba diving, and being out and about enjoying all the weirdness that Portland has to offer. I am hoping to find someone who can enjoy some or all of the non kinks as well as the kinks we might share. I need that someone to be gregarious, adventurous, bright and creative. I also expect that someone to be free of drug problems and STDs, and for a relationship beyond friendship and maybe occasional play, also free of children in the home.

If you think you might be the sort I am seeking, or you think it might just be cool to get to know one another on any terms at all, drop me a line, or say hi if you see me out and about.